The New Man

David Deida and The Man of Zero

Wed, 13 May 2026 07:21:15 +0000

David Deida discusses how The Man of Zero differs from The Superior Man, why there’s more to life than purpose, and how meaningless is the doorway to something truly fulfilling. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/05/david-deida-man-of-zero COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Burnout Almost Broke Him. How Jon Rose Got His Life Force Back.

Tue, 05 May 2026 03:13:02 +0000

Can burnout steal your life force? Jon Rose (Waves for Water) survived 47 disasters and 5 conflicts — here's how he came back stronger. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/05/jon-rose-burnout COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

How to Stay Calm and Focused in Uncertain Times — Brian Johnson

Thu, 23 Apr 2026 15:54:26 +0000

Are you worn out by the circus of uncertainty and anxiety? Do you find yourself wanting to check out, numb out, or just give up? And is it possible that all of this craziness is an opportunity to go deeper into what makes life truly meaningful? Philosopher and CEO Brian Johnson returns to discuss how we can break free from the forces distorting our thinking and draining our reality. We talk about how to reclaim a sense of control and why now is the perfect time to get out of the shallow end of the pool, tap into your calling, and create a life aligned with meaning. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/04/calm-focused-uncertain-times COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Is Psychedelic Therapy Worth the Hype? Will Van Derveer MD

Mon, 30 Mar 2026 22:30:48 +0000

Are you tired of fear, scarcity, and anxiety being a normal part of your life? Do you think trauma only comes from combat or some crazy intense experience? And if you’ve got some emotional challenges, will doing magic mushrooms with a backyard shaman make them go away? Will Van Derveer MD on healing anxiety, trauma, and what actually works. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/03/psychedelic-therapy-will-van-derveer-keith-kurlander COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

What’s Really Holding You Back: How to Get Stuff Done — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Wed, 18 Mar 2026 18:58:32 +0000

Why do so many capable people struggle to get things done? Learn to identify the roadblocks that hold us back and the necessary ingredients for getting things done. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/03/get-stuff-done COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

The Trap of Trying to Reach Your Full Potential — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 03 Mar 2026 23:09:34 +0000

Do you feel like your life is supposed to be bigger than it is? What would it mean if you weren’t exceptional? And why do so many successful folks still feel like they aren’t enough? Today Alyson and I explore why some people feel pressured to reach their full potential. We discuss the expectation to be exceptional, how fixating on the future kills our satisfaction, and why having what we truly want may be much simpler than we think. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/03/reach-your-full-potential COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

I Shouldn’t Have to Ask: When Relationships Feel One-Sided — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 17 Feb 2026 19:55:36 +0000

Are you tired of being the one who just handles everything? Do you ever catch yourself thinking, “I shouldn’t have to ask for help”? Or are you on the other side feeling like no matter what you do, it’s never enough? Today Alyson and I discuss what’s really happening when things don’t feel fair in a relationship. We explore why score-keeping poisons a partnership, how doing whatever they want makes you a burden, and why complaining and nagging aren't going to solve the problem. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/02/one-sided-relationship COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Staying Stuck vs Moving Forward: Doing the Hard Thing — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Mon, 02 Feb 2026 23:13:26 +0000

Is it clear that something has to change, but you’re afraid to make a move? How do you know when it’s time to throw in the towel? And how does “hope” fuel anxiety and keep us stuck? Whether it’s our business, a relationship, or whatever, we tend to stay stuck in a painful place because we don’t want to do the hard thing. Today, Alyson and I discuss why we avoid reality, how we can reclaim our power, and what we can ultimately do to allow peace of mind. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/02/staying-stuck-moving-forward COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Why Being Perfect Makes Us Weak — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Mon, 19 Jan 2026 21:57:04 +0000

Whether it’s your looks, your job, or whatever — do you feel a lot of pressure to get it right? Do you ever beat the hell out of yourself for making a mistake? And if we all know that no one’s perfect, then why do so many of us think we should be? Today Alyson and I dig into perfectionism: how we get wired for it, why we let it abuse us, and why striving to get it right makes it harder for us to have what we truly want in life. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/01/perfectionism-makes-us-weak COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

What Do You Really Want? Getting Out of Autopilot and the Prescribed Life — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 06 Jan 2026 20:10:28 +0000

Do you know what you really want in life or are you just reacting to whatever comes your way? Do you do things because they actually strengthen you or because some guy on a podcast said you should do them? And how can we get out of autopilot to begin the process of forging our own path? Today we dig into a question that scares a lot of people: What do you want? So many of us are firefighting, reacting, or quietly living a “prescribed life” and then wondering why we feel chronically trapped, drained, isolated, or out of alignment. Is there another way? Can we find and follow a different compass heading without blowing up everything we care about? Let’s find out. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/01/what-do-you-really-want COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Are They Busy or Just Not That Into You? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 16 Dec 2025 06:00:00 +0000

Do you care more about the relationship than your partner does? Does it seem like something else is getting their attention? And are your efforts to create time together actually pushing them away? Today Alyson and I talk about what it means when one partner is always busy or distracted. We explore why pushing for more connection can actually drive them away and why choosing to be busy may sometimes mean they’re just not that into you. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/12/too-busy-for-relationship COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

How to Deal with Holiday Stress, Guilt, and Family Pressure — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Sun, 30 Nov 2025 23:27:12 +0000

Are the holidays a source of stress and dread for you? Do you feel boxed in by family obligations? And does the thought of doing things differently feel like it would blow up the whole season? Today Alyson and I dig into the pressure, guilt, and expectations that show up this time of year. We talk about why it’s so hard to break old patterns, what drives the “I have to…” mindset, and how to start honoring what you actually want without torching the relationships that matter most. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/11/holiday-stress-guilt COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

The Sexless Marriage: Can it Be Repaired? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 18 Nov 2025 18:30:28 +0000

Are you afraid of being trapped in a sexless marriage? Does your partner treat sex like it’s just another chore? And what are the ways you’re killing your sex life without even knowing it? Today Alyson and I discuss sex — or the lack of sex — in long term relationships. We identify some of the ways we unconsciously kill attraction, what might truly be in the way, and why avoiding the issue just makes it worse. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/11/sexless-marriage COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Is Money Killing Your Relationship? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 04 Nov 2025 01:04:20 +0000

Why does talking about money with your partner feel so loaded? Why can financial conversations turn into full-blown fights? And what if the real issue isn’t money at all? In this episode, Alyson and I explore why finances are one of the biggest sources of stress — and even breakups — in relationships. We talk about how money has tested our own marriage, the hidden meanings we attach to it, and what shifts when we start to see what money truly represents for each of us. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/11/money-and-relationship-problems COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Too Nice? Too Smart? Too Stuck? Why Men Struggle with Power, Emotions, and Sex — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Wed, 22 Oct 2025 15:01:57 +0000

Why do so many women chase the jerk but overlook the nice guy? Do you ever lose yourself once you’re in a relationship? And what does it mean when a man’s powerful at work but neutered in the bedroom? Today, Alyson and I dig into why so many guys struggle with relationships, power, and emotions. We breakdown what it means to be a modern integrated male as well as the ideal balance of brains, heart, guts, and balls. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/10/why-men-struggle-with-power-emotions-and-sex COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Macho Jerks and Neutered Nice Guys: Let’s Talk Masculine and Feminine Energy — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Wed, 08 Oct 2025 07:45:01 +0000

Why does trying to be a “real man” scream insecurity? Why do so many guys turn into neutered, “yes dear” pushovers? And could all this talk about masculine and feminine energy be a big distraction? Today Alyson and I break it down. What do people really mean when they talk about masculine and feminine energy? Why do some swear it’s the secret to passion, polarity, and purpose? And what if the whole thing is missing the bigger point? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/10/masculine-feminine-energy COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

The Mindset That Keeps you Stuck, Overwhelmed, or Lost — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Wed, 24 Sep 2025 20:00:19 +0000

Do you know what needs to be done but fail to follow through? Does life constantly feel like there’s just too much to do? And are you waiting for everything to be done before you can really enjoy your life? Today Alyson and I share a simple way to look at our mindset and understand why we make life harder than it needs to be. Whether it’s our inner visionary, manager, or soldier, chances are if you’re struggling to make progress at least one of these guys is needing backup. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/09/mindset-that-keeps-you-stuck COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

How to Spot a Toxic Person Before It’s Too Late — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 09 Sep 2025 07:03:41 +0000

Do you have someone in your life that, no matter what you do, it’s always your fault? Do you often walk on eggshells, worried the next thing you say will set them off? And at what point does “difficult” cross the line into a personality disorder? Today, Alyson and I dive into one of the toughest, most confusing topics in relationships: personality disorders. Borderline, narcissistic, and other disorders can be hard to spot, until it’s too late. We’ll break down the red flags to watch for, the patterns that make these relationships so draining, and, most importantly, how to protect yourself when someone else’s behavior is dominating your life. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/09/toxic-person COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Success Without Soul: Dropping Comparisons and Proving — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Wed, 27 Aug 2025 00:35:27 +0000

Have you ever hit a big win…and felt nothing? Have you chased success, only to realize it was shallow or meaningless? And what happens when we finally start living in alignment with our soul instead of our ego? Today, Alyson and I dive into success, comparisons, and the art of getting over yourself. We talk about who we are underneath the urge to protect, please, and prove, and why it’s actually a gift when our wins feel empty. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/08/success-without-soul COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Stop “Shoulding” All Over Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 12 Aug 2025 22:01:58 +0000

Do you have a voice in your head telling you what you should and shouldn’t do? Why does this “tyranny of should” drain our aliveness, passion, and connection? And how might your life change if you weren’t afraid to be who you truly are? Today, Alyson and I talk about how we all “should” on ourselves and each other. We explore how this can leave us feeling trapped and emotionally constipated—and what life can feel like when we loosen our grip on control. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/08/shoulding-all-over-yourself COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

When Your Partner Feels Like an Adversary: Ditch the Bickering and Disrespect — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Wed, 30 Jul 2025 15:59:54 +0000

Do you treat the pizza delivery guy with more kindness than your partner? Do you frequently bicker or cut each other down with biting humor? And how is this disrespectful behavior killing your aliveness, connection, and sexual spontaneity? Today Alyson and I discuss the all too common problem of disrespect, resentment, and contempt in relationships. We explore how we can ditch the sniping and bickering and instead learn how to keep things clean, have each other’s back, and handle disagreements with respect. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/bickering-disrespect COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Drama Triangle: Getting out of the Blame Game — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Wed, 16 Jul 2025 00:12:21 +0000

Do you feel like you keep getting stuck in the same old arguments? What drains our aliveness more than work? And what if the thing killing your sex life had nothing to do with sex? Today Alyson and I reveal one of — if not the — biggest killers of aliveness, intimacy, and trust. It’s the drama triangle. We explore what it truly is, how it keeps us from finding solutions, and what you can do to pull yourself from its trap. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/drama-triangle COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Feeling Stuck and Uncertain: Moving from Anxiety to Clarity — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 01 Jul 2025 17:42:45 +0000

Do you ever feel stuck about what to do with your life, relationship, or career? What’s really going on when we say, “I don’t know what to do”? And how do we move forward without a clear vision or plan? Today, Alyson and I discuss feeling stuck and uncertain about what to do next. We explore what fuel anxiety, why comfort is different than peace, as well as some ways we can move from uncertainty into clarity. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/stuck-and-uncertain COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Is It Healthy to Use AI for Therapy? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 17 Jun 2025 23:57:58 +0000

Do you talk to AI like it’s your therapist? Is it wrong to prefer interactions with a machine over a human? And how is our pursuit of comfort killing our sense of confidence and meaning? Today, Alyson and I discuss the rise of AI as a substitute for friendships and emotional support. We explore why people are forming real bonds with artificial companions, how these tools can actually help, and what we risk when we forget the value of real connection. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/06/ai-therapy-connection COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Why We’re Attracted to the Wrong People (and What to Do About It) — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 03 Jun 2025 17:02:38 +0000

Why do some guys crave women who aren’t good for them? Is the “nice girl” always boring — and the “bad girl” more fun? And do we really need to put on an act just to make a relationship work? Today, Alyson and I talk about something a lot of people wrestle with — feeling torn between who we’re attracted to and who’s actually a better fit. We explore why we often contort ourselves to be accepted, how that shapes attraction, and what to do if feel like you have to choose between chemistry and connection. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/06/attraction-vs-connection COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

How to Have Deeper Conversations — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Wed, 21 May 2025 15:43:13 +0000

Do you get drained by small talk? Does it feel like no one else likes to talk about the things you love? And how can you have deeper conversations even if you don’t see eye to eye? Today Alyson and I discuss some ways to have deeper and more meaningful conversations — even when interests don’t align. Whether you’re chatting with strangers or deepening bonds in a long-term relationship, we share a few key ideas that’ll help you get out of the shallow end of the pool. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/05/deeper-conversations COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Should You Settle in Your Relationship? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 06 May 2025 17:34:36 +0000

Should you settle in your relationship? Do you ever wonder if there’s someone out there who’s a better fit? And could raising the bar too high leave you alone forever? Today, Alyson and I dig into the idea of “settling” in relationships. We talk about what it really means to raise your standards, how we sabotage relationships, and why it’s tempting to focus on someone else’s flaws instead of facing our own fears. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/05/settle-in-relationship COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Am I On The Wrong Path? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 22 Apr 2025 18:29:14 +0000

Do you ever fantasize about escaping your current life? Is fear the one setting your goals and expectations? And do you have any idea what would truly bring you peace of mind? Today, Alyson and I try to help a listener who is tired of the grind and wants to hit the eject button. We discuss how to know if you’re on the right track, why we pile on the pressure to succeed, and accessing our deeper selves to find peace of mind. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/04/on-the-wrong-path COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Dealing with Blame and Big Emotions in Your Relationship — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 08 Apr 2025 17:31:37 +0000

Is it easier to do a cold plunge than to deal with your partner’s emotions? If your partner’s in a bad mood, should you just be their punching bag? And do you spend more time focusing on solutions or who’s to blame? Today Alyson and I explore navigating big emotions in a partnership. We explore how to deal with intensity while also setting boundaries against aggression and good old-fashioned drama. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/04/dealing-with-blame-and-emotions COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Striving to be Set for Life — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 18:12:08 +0000

What does it mean to 10X your life? Why are we so afraid to go “backwards” financially? And what’s really driving our desire for more, more, more? Today, Alyson and I talk about developing a healthy high achiever mindset. We explore scarcity, motivation, and what really drives us to be “set for life.” https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/03/set-for-life COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

They Cheated on You. Now What? — Adam Nisenson, A Man’s Guide to Partner Betrayal

Tue, 11 Mar 2025 05:14:19 +0000

If your partner cheats on you, can the relationship be repaired? Is it your fault if your partner cheats? And how do men respond differently to being cheated on? Adam Nisenson is the author of A Man’s Guide to Partner Betrayal — a book specifically for men whose partners have cheated on them. We discuss why he calls infidelity a “death experience,” why it’s such a blow to our self esteem, and what not to do if you find out your partner has betrayed you. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/03/cheating-guide-to-betrayal-nisenson COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Can Your Sex Life Be Saved? — Ruth Ramsay

Tue, 25 Feb 2025 17:07:03 +0000

Is sex a source of frustration with your partner? Do you feel sexually rejected by them? And if you don’t push for sex, will your partner ever initiate it? Many folks — too many folks — are unsatisfied with their sex lives. This can be a huge source of frustration and resentment between partners, which can ultimately lead to affairs or divorce. But does it have to be this way? Ruth Ramsay is a sex educator, coach, and creator of a TED talk that has garnered millions of views. She’s seen inside the sex lives of many people, and today she’s going to help us understand why sex is so challenging as well as what we can do to make it less frustrating and more fulfilling. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/02/sexual-rejection COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Struggling with Spirituality — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 11 Feb 2025 05:15:00 +0000

Do you struggle with spirituality? If you stay off the naughty list, does the Universe give you what you want like Santa Claus? And why can spirituality feel so threatening to some folks? Today Alyson and I discuss some of the ways folks relate to the unseen, mysterious world of spirituality. We explore how this relates to our fear of uncertainty, our need for control, and why some people — including me — struggle with spirituality. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/02/struggling-with-spirituality COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Randy Blythe (lamb of god) on Drinking, Death, and God

Tue, 28 Jan 2025 04:41:28 +0000

Do you believe you need alcohol or some other crutch to function at your best? Do fears like imposter syndrome or stage fright ever completely go away? And is it still worthwhile to be generous and kind? Randy Blythe is best known as the vocalist for the metal band, lamb of god. He’s spent decades making records and playing to massive audiences all around the world. He’s also just another guy you might see surfing. That’s how we’ve become friends. Today we dive into his new book of essays, Just Beyond the Light and his difficult path of sobriety. We also discuss how, after a fan lost his life at a show in the Czech Republic back in 2010, Randy chose to face trial when he could have found a way out. If you enjoy gritty stories, stick around and consider picking up his new book. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/01/randy-blythe-just-beyond-the-light COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Feeling Stuck and Out of Alignment — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Mon, 13 Jan 2025 23:10:29 +0000

Is there a voice in your head that says you need to make a change? Do you experience scarcity if you’re not always making more money? And what can you do if the things that used to light you up feel empty now? Today Alyson and I discuss what we can do when we feel out of alignment with our lives. We talk about why we don’t need to beat ourselves up, what really holds us back from making a change, and why feeling “not enough” is really an invitation to get out of the shallow end of the pool. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/01/feeling-stuck COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Why Finding Your Purpose is So Frustrating — Jordan Grumet, The Purpose Code

Mon, 30 Dec 2024 23:04:26 +0000

Does it feel like your life is on hold until you figure out your purpose? What’s the real reason many folks are driven to be wealthy? And why do so many “successful” people feel burned out and empty? Dr Jordan Grumet returns to The New Man to discuss what many believe is the key to their fulfillment — purpose. He’s got a unique experience of being a doctor who helps people at the end of their lives, and he’s also a popular financial podcast host. This means he sees the gap between what is driving so many of us to be wealthy and what really matters. He’s written a new book called The Purpose Code that I love. It strips away the magical thinking BS and drills down to reveal what purpose and meaning really are. The result is a framework we can all use to do more of what we love, spend time with the people we love, and enjoy the precious time we have on this planet. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/12/purpose-code-jordan-grumet COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Why People Pleasing is Killing Your Sex Life and Career — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 03:42:01 +0000

Is it normal for you to forget things until someone nags you about it? Do you ever wonder why your relationships seem shallow or you miss out on career opportunities? And what does this all have to do with brown M&M’s? Today Alyson and I talk about people pleasing, nice guy syndrome, and how being checked out is killing your sex life and career. We discuss the dangers of transactional relating, why the little things matter and how you can become more trustworthy simply by saying “no” more often. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/12/people-pleasing COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

How Being Guarded Kills Aliveness, Meaning, and Purpose — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 03 Dec 2024 07:26:34 +0000

Are you devoted to anything other than money, security, or status? Does living with an open heart make you weak? And how is staying guarded killing aliveness? I grew up guarded and armored. For many years, I thought it was necessary and strong to cut myself off from emotional vulnerability. The truth is that I was fragile and incapable of being in emotionally challenging situations. That way of living almost destroyed me. For the last 20 years I’ve watched my wife Alyson navigate life very differently. She’s one of those rare few that can effortlessly disarm people and help them access their own hearts. Her strength in emotional situations is inspiring. It’s her superpower. So is this just something she was born with or is it a skill that she’s developed? I’ve always wanted to know but never asked. Until today. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/12/being-guarded COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Are You Jealous About Her Sexual Past? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 19 Nov 2024 06:52:03 +0000

Are you the best lover your partner has ever had? How could you ever be sure? What if they preferred having sex with someone else more than you? And is sex a place where you strive to prove that you’re good enough? Today we talk about feeling jealous about our partner’s sexual history. We explore what drives that insecurity, how neediness is repulsive, and why trying to prove you’re a rockstar in bed is a big mistake. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/11/jealous-about-sexual-history COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Rickson Gracie – How to Find Comfort in Darkness

Tue, 05 Nov 2024 02:10:41 +0000

Is a lack of confidence your worst enemy? What does it mean to develop mental, emotional, and spiritual strength? And how does accepting death make you stronger? Jiu Jitsu legend Rickson Gracie returns to The New Man, and we dive into the deeper topics from his new book with Peter Maguire called, Comfort in Darkness. Rickson wasn’t just a devastating opponent in the ring, he’s also a teacher that draws from a deep well of wisdom and intuition. He goes far beyond the mechanics and fundamentals to help others face their fears so that they can discover just how strong and capable they are. Today we discuss what he calls “Invisible Jiu Jitsu” and how we can all utilize it to become mentally, emotionally, and spiritually powerful. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/11/rickson-gracie-comfort-in-darkness COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Am I On The Wrong Path? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 22 Oct 2024 16:47:02 +0000

Do obstacles mean you're on the wrong path, or are they simply part of the journey? Is the universe conspiring against your dreams, or is it just your own fear holding you back? And what can you do if you’re struggling to find motivation or inspiration? Whether you're questioning your career path, second-guessing a major life decision, or simply feeling stuck, you’re bound to experience doubt and resistance. In this episode, we discuss finding your calling, facing inner resistance, and the fear that we might be heading in the wrong direction. And we also explore ways to keep moving forward, even when the path ahead seems uncertain. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/10/overcoming-resistance COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Build True Confidence by Understanding Unhealthy Self-Esteem — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 08 Oct 2024 17:51:22 +0000

What’s the common link between workaholism, greed, and love addiction? Does your sense of self worth go up and down like a rollercoaster? And is there more to life than protecting our egos? If you’re like everyone else on the planet, then you’ve probably struggled with feeling “enough.” Today Alyson and I dive under the hood to discuss Terry Real’s unhealthy forms of self-esteem so that we can all understand what kills our true confidence. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/10/workaholism-greed-love-addiction COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Dealing with Anger and Emotional Constipation — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 17 Sep 2024 16:47:10 +0000

If you’re angry, is it better to bottle it up or lash out in retaliation? Do you get stuck in a loop thinking of things you should say to that jerk who pissed you off? And how is emotional constipation draining our aliveness and motivation? In this conversation, Alyson and I discuss the problems that arise with anger. For many, we feel stuck — if we say something with anger it might make the situation worse. But if we bottle it up, we become a toxic balloon that could burst at any moment. So today we explore what really drives our anger in hopes that we can find a more productive way to deal with it. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/09/dealing-with-anger COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Avoiding Vulnerability Leads to Feeling Empty — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 03 Sep 2024 16:37:25 +0000

Is our drive for more money, more status, or more stuff really just an attempt to fill a God-sized hole in our lives? Do you ever feel awkward when expressing love to others? And how does our need for safety block us from having satisfying relationships? Today Alyson and I try to understand why love can be so challenging to receive. We discuss the ways we armor ourselves to avoid vulnerability and how we can still feel alone even when we’re with others. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/09/feel-empty

Facing the Fear of Being Alone — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 20 Aug 2024 04:15:00 +0000

Are you with someone because you really want them or because you’re more afraid to be alone?

Are you settling for junk food relationships that never satisfy and leave you feeling empty?

And how does loneliness drive us to choose lousy partners?

Relationships are hard and the only way to learn is to get in the mix. Today Alyson and I find some friction when it comes to dating and playing the field. We also discuss how we’ve helped ourselves and others face their loneliness so that they don’t have to settle for lousy partners.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/08/fear-of-being-alone

COACHING

- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

BOOK

- We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Is Therapy Frustrating? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 06 Aug 2024 04:15:00 +0000

Has therapy ever been frustrating for you? Is the purpose of therapy to just dig up junk from your past? And is it possible to find healers that can really help you move forward? Today Alyson and I talk about why many folks — including therapists we know and love — find the conventional form of therapy to be limiting. We discuss why she forged her own path instead of continuing as a licensed therapist. And we discuss ways to find healers that can serve you best. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/08/frustrated-with-therapy COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Can a Nerd Become a Stud? Reinventing Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 23 Jul 2024 04:15:00 +0000

Can a neutered nerd become a stud? Is your inner critic an enemy or an ally? And is self rejection fueling your ambition to be better? Today Alyson and I react to a movie called The Hitman and the topic of reinventing ourselves. This leads us to discuss pickup artists, neutered men, and facing our inner critic. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/07/reinvent-yourself COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Can You Learn to Trust Your Gut? — Mark Divine (Uncommon: Simple Principles for an Extraordinary Life)

Tue, 09 Jul 2024 15:48:17 +0000

Do you trust your gut when making decisions? Is there a way to quiet the harsh critic that constantly judges you? And how can we combine the benefits of western psychology with eastern mysticism? Put on your scuba gear because today we’re going deep with author, entrepreneur, and former Navy SEAL commander Mark Divine. In this conversation we discuss the power of embracing our emotions, intuition, and spirituality. If you’d like to explore these topics further, check out Mark Divine’s book Uncommon: Simple Principles for an Extraordinary Life. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/07/mark-divine-uncommon COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Sebastian Junger’s Near Death Experience — Sebastian Junger (In My Time of Dying)

Tue, 25 Jun 2024 04:15:00 +0000

What’s going to happen to you after you die? Is death something you ignore or something you use to enjoy your days more? And are near death experiences proof of an after life or just the brain going apeshit because it’s losing oxygen? Sebastian Junger is no stranger to death. As a war correspondent he survived an IED attack on his vehicle and spent a grueling stint in the treacherous Korengal Valley of Afghanistan. But in 2020 he came face to face with his own mortality in a very different setting. At home. With his family. And this brush with death shook him much, much deeper because of what — and who — he saw at the threshold into the unknown. In this discussion, Sebastian shares his amazing story and most importantly how his near death experience has shaped the man he is today. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/06/sebastian-junger-near-death-experience COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Feeling Pressured to Get Married — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Thu, 13 Jun 2024 17:04:56 +0000

Do you feel pressured to get married because you’ve been with someone a long time? Are you and your partner kicking the can down the road so you don’t have to face the reality of your challenges? And how much longer can you tolerate your relationship if it doesn’t change for the better? Today’s question comes from someone whose relationship is stuck in a rut. Their sex life is boring. They avoid difficult conversations, and he feels pressured to get married even though he has zero desire to commit. Is it possible to get things on a better trajectory? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/06/pressure-to-marry COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Motivation, Resistance, and The Cult of Success — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Thu, 30 May 2024 16:53:29 +0000

Is FOMO driving you to constantly be busy, busy, busy? Is it scary to admit that the hustle and grind is killing your motivation? And when is our resistance trying to help us? Today Alyson and I discuss motivation, resistance, and the cult of success. We talk about how it’s necessary to learn how to thrive in the world, but ultimately we have to stop jumping through hoops, forge our own path, and create success on our own terms. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/05/motivation-success-resistance COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Finding Your Gold and Essence — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 14 May 2024 04:15:00 +0000

Do you ever feel like something is just not quite right with your life? Do you have most of what you could want but still feel like something’s missing? And who are you underneath that ambition to succeed and avoid failure? Today Alyson and I talk about why so many folks feel empty inside even though they have amazing lives on the outside. We discuss what it means to find our gold, to reveal our essential nature, and what I call the “big imposter syndrome.” https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/05/finding-your-gold COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Spiritual But Not Religious? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 30 Apr 2024 04:15:00 +0000

Does your BS meter keep you from having a spiritual life? Are mystical experiences just our brain chemicals fooling us to believe we have a connection with God? And is spirituality something you can cultivate on your own or should you depend on a tradition or guru? Today my wife Alyson and I talk about religion, spirituality, and just how common it is to wrestle with this stuff. I share a bit about my own messy journey as well as what it may look like to forge your own path — on your own terms. If some of these ideas are helpful for you then great. And if they don’t align with your views, then please toss them aside. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/spiritual-but-not-religious COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Is Marriage Killing Your Aliveness? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 16 Apr 2024 15:35:21 +0000

Is marriage a death sentence for the part of you that is wild? Do you ever wonder what happened to fun, adventure, and spontaneity? And how can we avoid becoming another Homer Simpson or turning our partner into a “ball and chain?” Today Alyson and I dive into the topic of domestication. We explore how responsibilities and structure are necessary, but they don’t have to kill what makes us feel alive and free. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/marriage-domestication COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Is it Cheating to Watch Porn? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 02 Apr 2024 04:15:00 +0000

Is watching porn the same as cheating on your partner? Is it wrong to fantasize about someone other than your partner? And what are we really seeking when we choose to watch adult entertainment? Today, my wife Alyson and I try to help someone who has a different perspective on porn than his partner. It may be tempting to get stuck in a debate about who is right or wrong, but what if we tried to understand what’s driving us to seek porn in the first place? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/porn-cheating What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Is Healing for the Weak? – Jeff Boss (fmr Navy SEAL turned therapist)

Tue, 19 Mar 2024 15:28:42 +0000

Is therapy only for the weak? Do you ever feel like it’s you against the universe? And how can you tell if you’re a warfighter or a warrior? Years ago, Navy SEAL Jeff Boss left the military and struggled to find his way as a civilian. Even after burying dozens of his friends, he believed healing was for the weak. Regardless of his elite mental strength training, he was fighting back the emotions with booze and women. Until he couldn’t do it anymore. So how did he go from someone who thought therapy was for wimps to becoming a therapist himself? Today, Jeff takes us through his experience — from feeling lost and depressed to finding his calling as a healer. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/03/jeff-boss-healing-warriors What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

How to Tell if You’re Soul Mates — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 05 Mar 2024 16:23:38 +0000

Do you believe in soul mates or is that just some rom com BS? Do you feel guilty for having a life outside of work and your relationship? And what relationship advice would have helped your younger self avoid a huge headache? My wife Alyson and I deal with past relationship failures, settling for nice guys, and what it may really mean to have a soul mate. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/03/soul-mate What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Going to War with Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 13 Feb 2024 05:15:00 +0000

Do you ever feel like you’re at war with yourself? Are the blind spots holding you back obvious to others? And how can a wall become a potential pathway to get unstuck? Today, my wife Alyson and I discuss how so many of us are striving to improve ourselves by going to war with ourselves. And we explore what ultimately brings us the emotional peace we hope that victory will bring. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/02/at-war-with-yourself What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Less Information. More Taking Action. — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Wed, 31 Jan 2024 15:12:48 +0000

Do you have an amazing collection of books but lousy focus and discipline? Do you get excited about new ideas but then feel bad because you don’t really do anything with them? And what would happen if you took a break from jamming new ideas into your head? Today’s coaching call is with a self-proclaimed personal growth junkie. He can easily spend hours pouring through books and podcasts, but when it comes to taking action it’s like pulling teeth. We take a look at why he’s leaking his energy and challenge him to reconnect with what really matters. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/01/taking-action What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Commitment Issues: What Would Make You Excited to Commit? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Wed, 17 Jan 2024 04:31:47 +0000

What would make you excited to commit to a relationship? Are you afraid to set a high bar for someone because it may mean you’ll end up alone? And what does it mean if you can’t stop nit-picking your partner? In today’s coffee date, my wife Alyson and I recall the first phone conversation we ever had. She grilled me for hours about my values — or as she puts it, “What makes you kneel or bow?” We talk about the value of being radically honest early on and why being out of alignment on the big stuff dooms us to struggle with the small stuff. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/01/commitment-issues-2 What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Getting Your Partner to Change — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 02 Jan 2024 05:15:00 +0000

Do you wish you could change something about your partner? Is there something about them that keeps you from committing? And how is staying in the shallow end of the pool drowning your relationship? My wife Alyson and I share a cup of coffee and flounder through a conversation about changing your partner, refusing to be the bad guy, and why it’s so important to keep your side of the street clean. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/01/changing-your-partner What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

What’s Wrong with Meditation? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 19 Dec 2023 15:51:56 +0000

Is meditation a tool to help you be more productive or an ancient practice for expanding consciousness? Is personal growth really just another way to escape the discomfort and uncertainty of life? And can peace only be experienced once we’ve accomplish all of our goals? Today my wife Alyson and I share another coffee date where we talk about what has drawn me into decades of spiritual practice. There’s the good and the not so good. So why do I keep doing it after all these years? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/12/meditation What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Making Sense of Science and Spirituality — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 05 Dec 2023 17:56:50 +0000

Do you know any white guys with dreadlocks? Could you be in a cult without even knowing it? And is it possible for science and spirituality to co-exist? My wife Alyson and I decided to have a coffee date…with microphones. This means I got to ask her silly questions, and she did what she normally does — dig down to find the deepest, grittiest stuff she can find. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/12/science-spirituality What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Needing the Approval of Others — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 21 Nov 2023 05:15:00 +0000

Is success a way to make you look more impressive? Do you ruminate about ways to get the approval of others? And what truly motivates you to be more successful? Today’s call is an emotional one. Our guy has had a checkered past which has left him estranged from his daughters. He’s gotten his own life back on track, but when it comes to his girls there’s still a lot to repair. In this call we start out talking about making money, but we quickly reveal what’s driving his need for success. Make sure you stick around to the end to hear how things have progressed since this call was recorded. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/11/approval-of-others What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Are You Playing the Wrong Game? — Brian Johnson Areté

Tue, 07 Nov 2023 05:15:00 +0000

Do you ever feel like you’re playing the wrong game in life? Are you overwhelmed by all of the personal growth stuff you “should” to be doing? And if you check all the boxes, should life be easy? Heroic CEO and app creator Brian Johnson is back to discuss his new book "Areté: Activate Your Heroic Potential". Since we last spoke a lot has happened including a challenge that nearly sank his business — and millions of dollars — just two days before their product launch. Today, we dive into what he calls The Ultimate Game, we learn how our daily choices invite the circus to town, and we hear about the impact of putting his protocol into practice. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/11/brian-johnson-arete What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

How to Beat Procrastination — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 24 Oct 2023 04:15:00 +0000

Do you get fired up to set goals but suck at following through? Are you waiting for inspiration or motivation to make it easier to battle procrastination? And would it bring you peace to give up on your dreams? Today’s call is with a guy who’s sick of allowing resistance to get the best of him. He sets tons of goals but doesn’t follow through. Pissing away his time, strengths, and gifts is killing his peace of mind. So today we look at his mindset, his excuses, and we punch through his procrastination. Immediately. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/10/procrastination-action What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

The Workaholic Curse — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 10 Oct 2023 16:41:14 +0000

Do you feel like everything will fall apart if you don’t bust your ass everyday? Do you expect work and family to be the only things that nourish you? And are you waiting for life to be different before you’re allowed to live the way you really want to live? Today’s coaching call focuses on a guy who’s made some big changes through major weight loss and therapy. That said, he still calls himself a workaholic without a life beyond the office and home. In this conversation we challenge the mindset that keeps him stuck in the grind so that he can free up his time and live more purposefully. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/10/workaholic What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Stop Running Away from Your Problems — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 26 Sep 2023 16:01:32 +0000

Are you stuck professionally because you’re afraid to put yourself out there? Why do we sabotage opportunities to be more successful? And is it possible that doing scary stuff can ultimately feel fun? Today we talk with someone who’s limiting his opportunities because he’s afraid of criticism. We put his fear in perspective, find his courage, and even have fun taking action. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/09/running-away-from-problems What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Putting Yourself Out There — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Thu, 14 Sep 2023 04:40:24 +0000

Are you stuck professionally because you’re afraid to put yourself out there? Why do we sabotage opportunities to be more successful? And is it possible that doing scary stuff can ultimately feel fun? Today we talk with someone who’s limiting his opportunities because he’s afraid of criticism. We put his fear in perspective, find his courage, and even have fun taking action. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/09/putting-yourself-out-there What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Feeling Like You’re Not Enough — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 29 Aug 2023 02:00:00 +0000

Do you ever wonder if you’re doing enough with your life? If you want more does that mean you’re not grateful for what you have? And would it be okay for someone to come in your house and do whatever they wanted with your partner, your kids, or your possessions? Today’s coaching conversation is with a man who wants more vitality and opportunity. We expose the mindset that allows him to be pushed around by resistance and laziness, and I challenge him to fight for his life force the same way he would fight for his family. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/08/feeling-like-youre-not-enough What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Fighting Resistance and Laziness — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Wed, 16 Aug 2023 03:55:00 +0000

Do you ever wonder if you’re doing enough with your life? If you want more does that mean you’re not grateful for what you have? And would it be okay for someone to come in your house and do whatever they wanted with your partner, your kids, or your possessions? Today’s coaching conversation is with a man who wants more vitality and opportunity. We expose the mindset that allows him to be pushed around by resistance and laziness, and I challenge him to fight for his life force the same way he would fight for his family. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/08/fighting-resistance-laziness What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Rat Racer Mentality: When the Best isn’t Enough — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 01 Aug 2023 03:00:00 +0000

Today I have a fun conversation with a middle-aged business owner who’s done well for himself. But regardless of what he accomplishes, it never feels like enough. Instead of enjoying his good fortune, he’s constantly focusing on the future. What’s missing. What needs to be better. What threats may be coming. As a result he’s chronically stressed and overwhelmed. So we dive into his mindset to see what’s driving this constant need for more. And most importantly we help him clarify a version of success that he can actually enjoy. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/07/rat-racer-mentality What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Moving from Anxiety to Confidence — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Wed, 19 Jul 2023 04:00:00 +0000

Today I’m talking with an emergency room surgeon who’s making the moves to change careers. That said, he’s anxious. He’s worried. He’s being pulled in too many directions, and he feels like he’s missing the boat. In this conversation, we identify the limiting beliefs killing his confidence and learn how clarity and integrity provide satisfaction — even if he hasn’t crossed the finish line yet. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/07/anxiety-confidence What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

The Need to Be Legit — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Wed, 05 Jul 2023 20:58:47 +0000

On this coaching call, a former client with too many options but not enough time. Luckily, we identify the mindset that’s draining her energy and provide a new way of approaching work so that it doesn’t devour her life or peace of mind. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/07/need-to-be-legit What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

The Pressure to Succeed — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Wed, 21 Jun 2023 04:15:00 +0000

How do you deal with the pressure to succeed? In this call, I talk with a father who feels an immense fear of failure. We take a look at what drives his perfectionism, and find a more playful way to provide. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/06/pressure-to-succeed What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

From Rumination to Mental Strength – Anson Whitmer (Calm/Mental App)

Tue, 06 Jun 2023 04:05:00 +0000

Is Huberman's approach over the top? Why should we never go "full Goggins"? And is there a better way to train our minds than the macho-achiever-bro-approach? Neuroscientist/Founder Anson Whitmer (Calm, Mental apps) walks us through Mental. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/06/mental-app-anson-whitmer What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Imposter Syndrome and Proving Your Value — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 23 May 2023 02:00:00 +0000

Is imposter syndrome driving you nuts? In this conversation, we talk with a guy who’s convinced his success will come crashing down if he doesn’t constantly prove he’s legit. We reveal what’s truly driving his exhaustion and an unlikely solution. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/05/imposter-syndrome What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Why Goals Are Exhausting You — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 09 May 2023 16:13:20 +0000

Is the pursuit of your goals exhausting you? Are you unwilling to relax because something bad will happen? I talk with a high achiever who’s uncertain about where to go next in his business and life. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/05/goals-lack-motivation What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Dealing with Burnout — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 25 Apr 2023 04:15:00 +0000

Are you dealing with burnout? Stuck in a "same sh*t different day" routine? In this coaching call, we see how one man reclaims his fire when he sees through his own BS. Plus, what life lesson can we learn from a six-year-old girl? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/04/dealing-with-burnout What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

“I’m Stuck and I Don’t Know Where to Go Next” — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 11 Apr 2023 04:05:00 +0000

Having the guts to face your fears. In this coaching call I talk with a high achiever who doesn’t understand why success isn’t as satisfying as expected. Instead of helping him pursue a life on “easy street”, we visit the place he’s been fighting like hell to avoid. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/04/face-your-fear What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Dealing with Marriage Money Drama — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 28 Mar 2023 00:22:25 +0000

Dealing with Marriage Money Drama — I coach a married guy facing financial challenges. We discover there's something far more toxic poisoning their relationship. We discuss ways to shut down the drama so that both partners can have what they want. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/03/finances-marriage What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Fear of Failure | Why Is It So Hard to Commit? — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 14 Mar 2023 14:19:23 +0000

Does the fear of failure keep you from making a commitment? And what can the honey badger teach us about getting over ourselves? In today’s coaching call, we explore a strange way to overcome the fear of failure and truly commit to our work. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/03/fear-of-failure-4 What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Old is Just a Mindset – Steven Kotler

Mon, 27 Feb 2023 05:05:00 +0000

Is getting old just a mindset? Steven Kotler (“Gnar Country”, “The Art of Impossible”, “Flow Research Collective”) discusses the new science of peak performance aging, why flow is critical for aging well, and ways to deal with fear and self-doubt. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/02/steven-kotler-gnar-country What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Have You Outgrown Your Career? — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Wed, 15 Feb 2023 04:28:45 +0000

In this coaching call, I talk with a guy who's built a successful business. The problem? It’s killing his soul. He’s lost touch with aliveness and meaning. How can he turn this around without blowing everything up? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/02/outgrow-your-career What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Can Sexual Attraction Be Repaired? — Shana James

Tue, 31 Jan 2023 05:05:00 +0000

Can sexual attraction be repaired? Shana James (Honest Sex) talks about what really opens the doors to have more frequent and better sex. Hint: it's not about being jacked or more “masculine” — whatever the hell that means. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/01/sexual-attraction-repair What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

When Your Business is Choking You — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 17 Jan 2023 05:05:00 +0000

Are you meant to do something else professionally? And how does nice guy syndrome show up at work? In this coaching call, I talk with an overwhelmed entrepreneur who's wondering if she should consider another business. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/01/overwhelming-workload What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Mark Manson Made a Movie — The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F

Mon, 02 Jan 2023 05:05:00 +0000

Mark Manson's The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F is now a movie. Mark and I discuss making the film, what makes him feel insecure, and what Will Smith taught him about fame. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/01/mark-manson-movie What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

How to Deal with Money Fears — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 20 Dec 2022 17:07:11 +0000

How to deal with money fears. Are you sick of your 9-5 day job? Is money a mysterious force that seems to always have power over you? In this coaching call, I work with a woman who is tired of feeling dragged around by her finances. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/12/how-to-deal-with-money-fears What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Phil Stutz + Barry Michels – The Tools to Defeat Your Inner Enemy (Encore)

Tue, 13 Dec 2022 05:05:00 +0000

Phil Stutz (the subject of Jonah Hill’s Netflix documentary, "Stutz") and Barry Michels discuss building energy, overcoming your worst habits, and the danger of your fantasy future. @TheToolsBook #philstutz #barrymichels https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/12/phil-stutz-barry-michels-coming-alive-interview What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

How to Deal with Nice Guy Syndrome — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 06 Dec 2022 05:15:23 +0000

How to Deal with Nice Guy Syndrome. In this call: The client uses anxiety as a doorway to deal with nice guy syndrome. Also, moving from people pleasing to creating the wholeness and relationship he truly wants. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/12/nice-guy-syndrome What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Phil Stutz + Barry Michels on The Tools (Encore)

Tue, 29 Nov 2022 16:25:46 +0000

Phil Stutz and Barry Michels (Stutz Netflix documentary, The Tools, Coming Alive) on how to deal with procrastination, grudges, and all kinds of negative thinking. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/11/phil-stutz-barry-michels-tools-interview You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Am I Stuck in the Wrong Career? — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 22 Nov 2022 20:27:43 +0000

Are You Afraid You May Be Stuck in the Wrong Career? In this coaching call, a former golf pro now has money and stability. But something’s missing. We connect the dots between playing it safe, risk, and doing what makes him feel truly alive. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/11/stuck-in-wrong-career What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

The Painful Reason You’re Burned Out — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 08 Nov 2022 14:41:58 +0000

Is your drive to be productive burning you out? Does the idea of relaxing create anxiety or guilt? In this coaching call, I help a man explore what drives his deep need to be productive. Also: how we use work to escape emotions. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/11/burned-out What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Integral Theory and The Cultural Dumpster Fire — Jeff Salzman, The Daily Evolver (Encore)

Tue, 01 Nov 2022 05:00:00 +0000

In this encore episode, Jeff Salzman from The Daily Evolver podcast stops by to discuss integral theory. Ken Wilber’s integral theory has had a huge impact on my life, and today Jeff and I are going to explore how it can help us navigate our conflicted world. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/10/integral-theory-jeff-salzman What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

What is Mastery of Self? — don Miguel Ruiz Jr. (Encore)

Tue, 25 Oct 2022 05:00:00 +0000

In this encore episode, The Mastery of Self author and transformative teacher Don Miguel Ruiz Jr. is here to talk about power, why successful guys still live in scarcity, and what you can do about that guy on Facebook who keeps pissing you off. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/10/don-miguel-ruiz-jr What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Pressure, Anxiety, and Doing What You Love — Chip Conley (Encore)

Tue, 18 Oct 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Chip Conley (Wisdom @ Work, Joie de Vivre Hotels, Modern Elder Academy) discusses anxiety, workaholism, finding a calling, success and making sense of your emotions. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/10/chip-conley-leadership What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

How to Train the Brain to Overcome Fear – Jaimal Yogis (Encore)

Tue, 11 Oct 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Jaimal Yogis (The Fear Project, All Our Waves are Water, Saltwater Buddha) on how to train your brain to overcome fear. Discussed: building motivation, transforming bad experiences, dealing with rejection.ww https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/10/jaimal-yogis-fear You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Should You End Your Relationship? – Alyson Lanier (Encore)

Tue, 04 Oct 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Are you and your partner lit up about the same things or are you growing apart? How do you get fired up to make a big relationship commitment? And when is it time to pull the plug on your relationship? My wife, Alyson Lanier, is a relationship and intimacy coach with over 20 years of experience. Our previous interview has been downloaded more times than any other episode of The New Man. In this encore episode she’s gonna tell us how she helps those couples who are sick of struggling but aren’t clear about how to move forward. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/10/end-your-relationship You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Mark Manson on Why the World is Going Crazy – Mark Manson (Encore)

Tue, 27 Sep 2022 05:00:00 +0000

What happens after you make all of your dreams come true? What if hope is just another form of evil? And are we making life harder than it needs to be? Mark Manson sold millions of copies of his last book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, and he’s back with a new one called Everything is F*cked. In this encore episode, we talk about slaughtering our sacred cows, why hope makes us fight one another, and why success tends to make us weak. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/09/mark-manson-interview-2 You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

How to Have (Really) Difficult Conversations – Mark J Silverman(Encore)

Tue, 20 Sep 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Mark Silverman (author and coach) talks about having difficult conversations — Here’s what he’s learned after pulling back the curtain and telling his wife, co-workers, and sons he was gay. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/09/having-difficult-conversations You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Why Do Dolphins Get Stoned? The High Performance Benefits of Altered States – Jamie Wheal (Encore)

Tue, 13 Sep 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Jamie Wheal (Stealing Fire, Recapture the Rapture) discusses altered states, flow, ecstasis, startup founders at Burning Man, and how Navy SEALs accelerate learning. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/09/jamie-wheal-altered-states You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

How to Turn an Enemy into an Ally – Bill Shireman (Encore)

Tue, 06 Sep 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Bill Shireman (In This Together, Future 500) discusses how to turn an enemy into an ally, how we're played by political polarization, and finding purpose in chaos. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/09/bill-shireman You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Why We’re All Full of Sh*t – Jonathan Haidt (Encore)

Tue, 30 Aug 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Jonathan Haidt (author "The Righteous Mind", "The Happiness Hypothesis", "The Coddling of the American Mind") discusses why groups get crazy, our fear of rejection, and the mindset that makes us weak. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/08/jonathan-haidt-interview You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

The Way of the Peaceful Warrior — Dan Millman (Encore)

Tue, 23 Aug 2022 04:50:00 +0000

Are you more afraid of rocking the boat or looking like a wimp? Do you see your current life as a diversion or as the training ground for being your best? And how can you walk the razor’s edge between being a passive wimp and the aggressive tough guy? In this encore episode, legendary author and peaceful warrior Dan Millman is on The New Man to help you confront your fears, quit settling for less and live this life in the moment. In this episode: What is a peaceful warrior and why should you care? How to live your life as a peaceful warrior Is spirituality just some idealistic, high level, pie-in-the-sky cream dream? How to tell the difference between objective and subjective fears What to do if you’re on the fence or have a difficult choice to make Plus: How to find a teacher How to tell if you’re on the “right path” or not How to handle confrontations How important is the body in walking the path? Can Dan Millman take Deepak Chopra in a cage match? The single practice to help you get the most out of this life https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/08/dan-millman-interview You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Dial in Your Money Psychology — Brent Kessel (Encore)

Tue, 16 Aug 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Money psychology: Are you more comfortable talking openly about sex or money? Author and financial planner Brent Kessel discusses how a four year old is probably running your financial life. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/08/money-psychology You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Defending the Ego Makes Us Weak — Aubrey Marcus (Encore)

Tue, 09 Aug 2022 05:00:00 +0000

What would your buddies think about you if they knew other men were sleeping with your wife? Are you only valuable if you’re working hard? And do you only do things that you know you can do well? Aubrey Marcus has had business success while also being outspoken in areas that challenge the ways most people think. In this encore episode, we talk about lessons he’s learned from open relationships, rituals with plant medicines, and how we find true strength when we stop defending our egos. In this interview: What is Total Human Optimization? How most high performers are driven by their demons Having success and wondering “Now what?” The danger of seeking validation through success, sex, etc. Why “tough guys” are tortured Plus: The deep pain Aubrey felt in his open relationship What really scares Aubrey? Does enjoying your life threaten your ability to be successful? “When you quit defending stuff you’re no longer vulnerable.” Phil Stutz: “Only the dead survive” https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/08/aubrey-marcus You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Is Money Killing You? – Jordan Grumet

Tue, 02 Aug 2022 14:00:00 +0000

Is money like oxygen for you? Is money the reason why you feel stuck? And will we care about money in the last days of our lives? Today’s guest has helped many, many people die. And in those moments, money wasn’t a concern for them. Jordan Grumet aka Doc G returns to discuss his new book Taking Stock. It’s about all fun stuff like money, death, and what we may regret at the end of our lives. Luckily he’s here to share his unique wisdom as a hospice doctor and personal finance expert. Today we’ll learn how to focus on what’s most important, put money in perspective, and prepare for a peaceful exit. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/08/jordan-grumet-taking-stock What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

How to Identify the Drama Triangle and Get Yourself Out — David Emerald (Encore)

Tue, 26 Jul 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Could you be a drama queen without even knowing it? Are you focusing on your problems or the outcomes you want? And how does playing the blame game kill your passion for life? In this encore episode, The Power of TED author David Emerald is here to talk about drama, victimhood, and how you can stop pointing fingers and empower yourself in any situation. In this interview: How knowing the Drama Triangle can change your life The difference between victimization and victimhood The key to creating passion in your life The simple way to create empowerment The small steps to a big vision When being a supportive friend doesn't help One thing you can do today to shift your mentality https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/07/david-emerald-power-ted You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Is There More to Life Than Winning or Losing? — Shaun Tomson (Encore)

Tue, 19 Jul 2022 04:30:00 +0000

Would you buy a shotgun to defend your career? How could facing death help you be stronger in other areas of your life? And how do you know when it’s time to bend and when it’s time to stand firm? Author and surfing legend Shaun Tomson discusses winning, surviving horrendous loss, and how you can make sure you’re not one of the million people who will die this year because of bad choices. In this interview: Shaun and his shotgun on the North Shore of Oahu Preparing to die for what he loved Facing death and never giving up And Dealing with the loss of his 15 year old son Accepting the brutal reality instead of living in fantasy How to write your own life code Plus Lessons learned after being sucker punched Battling a scarcity mindset Building courage and optimism https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/07/shaun-tomson-life You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Always Worrying About Money — Michael Neill (Encore)

Tue, 12 Jul 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Do you think you can solve money worries simply by making more money? Do you think you need to struggle and endure self-criticism and pressure in order to be happy? And what’s the most effective way to regain a sense of control when things get bumpy? In this encore episode, Michael Neill (world renowned transformative coach and best selling author) talks about some of the life changing ideas in his books The Inside Out Revolution and The Space Within. In this interview: Dealing with money scarcity The most effective way to feel in control Recognizing what is really stressing you out Beating yourself up in order to be successful The guy who makes 7 figures who is worried about money https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/07/inside-out-revolution-michael-neill You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

How to Approach Women Without Being a Moron — Shana James (Encore)

Tue, 05 Jul 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Do you wish you could approach any woman, any time, anywhere? Do you get stuck planning the perfect thing to say so you don't screw up? And how do you let her know you want to be more than just friends? In this encore episode, coach Shana James shares her feminine perspective to help all guys -- single and married -- let go of the mind games and have more confidence, freedom, and connection. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/07/approach-women-dating You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

JP Sears Wants You to Get Offended – JP Sears (Encore)

Tue, 28 Jun 2022 05:00:00 +0000

(Very) controversial YouTube comedian JP Sears talks about laughter, getting offended, and how you can be better than everyone else in this encore episode. @AwakenWithJP https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/06/jp-sears-get-offended You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

How to Live When You Should Be Dead — Dave Baker (Encore)

Tue, 21 Jun 2022 05:00:00 +0000

In May of 2007 Dave Baker should have died from a massive heart attack. This is his unbelievable story — what happened, how he recovered, and why he refused to just “exist” after getting a second chance at life. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/06/heart-attack-recovery-encore You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

How to Reinvent Yourself – Steve Chandler (Encore)

Tue, 14 Jun 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Drugs, alcohol, failure — In this encore episode, coach/author Steve Chandler tells the insane story about turning his life around. If you get easily rattled, you may want to sit this one out. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/06/steve-chandler-author-coach You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

How to Make a Big Life Change – Robert Greene (Encore)

Tue, 07 Jun 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Is it really too late to make a big change in your life? In this encore episode, Robert Greene discusses power, mastery, and how he wandered through dozens of jobs before finding success as a bestselling author. @RobertGreene https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/06/robert-greene-daily-laws

Sex, Drugs and Escaping from Life – Junpo Denis Kelly(Encore)

Tue, 31 May 2022 05:02:00 +0000

If you make enough money, have enough sex, do enough drugs, meditate, whatever -- can you escape the frustration of living? The late Zen Master Junpo Denis Kelly discusses his life, sex, LSD, running from the law, anger and fear. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/05/jun-po-denis-kelly-heart-blown-open-encore You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Greg Long – How to Come Back from the Dead (Encore)

Tue, 24 May 2022 20:09:41 +0000

Afraid to take risks? Afraid to admit you’re afraid? Greg Long nearly drowned surfing Cortes Bank and went Christmas shopping the next day. Recovering mentally and emotionally was a much more challenging ordeal. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/05/greg-long-big-wave-drowning-cortes-bank

How to Beat Mental Resistance + Wannabe Rock Stars — Tripp Lanier

Wed, 13 Apr 2022 05:00:00 +0000

If your current path is challenging or scary, does that mean you’re on the wrong path? How can we keep mental resistance from killing our confidence? And what does this have to do with Tripp’s wannabe rock star days? In today’s video we discuss how to beat mental resistance. We’ll learn some basic steps to overcome self doubt and do what truly matters. In this video: Tripp’s wannabe rock star days Why mental resistance shows up The 3 commitments that keep us stuck The cost of letting resistance win 5 steps to get back on track https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/04/how-to-beat-mental-resistance You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

The Ego is Not the Enemy? — Tripp Lanier

Wed, 30 Mar 2022 17:16:53 +0000

What if our ego is not the enemy? What if trying to kill our ego is killing our peace of mind? And what does this have to do with Peacemaker, Team America, and goofy superheroes? In this video, we explore the flawed belief that “killing the ego” is the pathway to inner peace. We’ll also explore a very accessible way to build inner alliances instead. Click here for my interview with Dr. Richard Schwartz about IFS (Internal Family Systems, No Bad Parts). https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/09/richard-schwartz-no-bad-parts https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/03/ego-not-the-enemy

Startup Founder Mindset – David Perel’s Racing Rollercoaster Continues

Tue, 15 Mar 2022 08:00:00 +0000

Professional racing driver, David Perel shares his startup founder mindset, developing a new business during Covid, and living his dream to race at Le Mans. How his startup went into high gear when sim racing exploded while the world shut down. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/03/startup-founder-mindset-david-perel

Kelly Slater and a Healthy Competitor Mindset — Tripp Lanier

Tue, 01 Mar 2022 04:50:00 +0000

Do you ever get burned out striving for more, more, more? Do you ever find yourself comparing yourself or your accomplishments to others? And what can we learn from the GOAT of professional surfing — Kelly Slater — about motivation and healthy competition? In this short video, we explore the shadow side of our competitive nature plus the 3 steps to using our competitive drive in a healthy way. In this video: - Kelly Slater and the 2022 Pipeline Masters - Burnout from competitive mindset - Why losses can sting so bad - Reinventing ourselves - Another way to approach competition https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/02/competitor-mindset-kelly-slater

The Magical Steak Story: Dangers of a Magical Mindset — Tripp Lanier

Tue, 15 Feb 2022 05:15:00 +0000

Do some people seem to have magical powers? Or do they just have a skill you may not have yet? And what does this have to do with a mysterious object found in a toilet? Today we discuss how magical thinking keeps us playing small and what we can do to build confidence and skill. In this video: - Putting people on a pedestal - How magical thinking keeps us in a victim mentality - Hiding under our mother’s skirt - Shifting our mindset to build confidence and skill - One of my disgusting pranks https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/02/magical-mindset

The 3 Keys to Clarity: Finding Direction and Alignment — Tripp Lanier

Tue, 01 Feb 2022 04:55:00 +0000

Do you have a gnawing feeling that you’re not “on track”? In this short video, I discuss the 3 step process that helps me and my coaching clients find clarity, alignment, and peace of mind. In this audio: - Why so many folks feel lost - Why I was terrified after selling my first company - Why waiting for the perfect plan is a trap - How does money impact a purposeful life? - Why procrastination isn’t always laziness https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/01/finding-clarity

Why Did They Call Me Cat Squeeze? Productivity and Outgrowing Your Life — Tripp Lanier

Tue, 18 Jan 2022 06:00:00 +0000

Have you ever wondered why some folks call me ‘cat squeeze’? Probably not, but we’re doing to talk about it anyway. Today we discuss outgrowing old identities, finding our aliveness, and why our need to be more productive might be more about who we are vs how much we can do. In this short video: - My cat’s constipation and my role in relieving him - Constantly busy but never feeling like you’ve done enough - Striving for more, more, more - Leading your own life vs stuck in expectations - 3 steps to shift into a more powerful mindset https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/01/outgrow-your-life

Dealbreakers: Are You Roommates or Lovers? — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

Tue, 14 Dec 2021 05:05:00 +0000

Are you and your main squeeze lovers or just roommates? Is being lovers a priority or an afterthought? And what puts the brakes on your sex life? Today Alyson and I talk about the roles we play in our relationships — being roommates, business partners, co-parents, buddies — and how these roles kill our sex life. We also discuss ways to put our relationship problems into perspective so that we can identify what is truly a dealbreaker. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/12/sex-life

My Wife Challenges Me to Go Big — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

Tue, 30 Nov 2021 05:15:00 +0000

My Wife Challenges Me to Go Big Do fears of going broke keep you playing small? Alyson and Tripp Lanier discuss how fear holds us back from what we truly want, why self leadership matters, and the difference between coaching and therapy. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/11/self-leadership-ifs

Do You Fear Your Ambition? (Part 4) – Brian Johnson

Tue, 16 Nov 2021 07:00:00 +0000

Do you fear your ambition? What's the opposite of imposter syndrome? Optimize/Heroic founder, Brian Johnson discusses ambition, assessing risk, and leading from our inner wisdom instead of our inner Johnny Knoxville (no offense Johnny). https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/11/brian-johnson-ambition

What Would You Die For? – Sebastian Junger (Freedom, Tribe, The Perfect Storm)

Thu, 28 Oct 2021 13:26:07 +0000

Sebastian Junger ("Freedom", "Tribe", "The Perfect Storm") discusses the benefits of danger, why we need to be willing to die for our group, and what he saw right before he died. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/10/sebastian-junger-freedom

Why Avoiding Conflict is Creating Conflict – Jayson Gaddis (Getting to Zero, The Relationship School)

Tue, 12 Oct 2021 12:00:53 +0000

What if avoiding conflict was the thing killing your relationship and sex life? Are you being fake with your partner because you’re afraid to tell the truth? And is it possible to end a relationship with peace of mind? Relationship School founder Jayson Gaddis returns to discuss his new book Getting to Zero. Today he and I explore how conflict — especially avoiding conflict — is killing the relationships, trust, and sexual experiences we’re trying to protect. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/10/jayson-gaddis-getting-to-zero You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. "This Book Will Make You Dangerous" is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

From Inner Critic to Inner Peace – Richard Schwartz (IFS, No Bad Parts)

Tue, 28 Sep 2021 04:01:00 +0000

Richard Schwartz ("No Bad Parts") IFS founder discusses inner critics, our addiction to achievement, and why we don’t need to strive for an awakened life. #internalfamilysystems https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/09/richard-schwartz-no-bad-parts You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. "This Book Will Make You Dangerous" is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

You’re Being Hormonal – When Heated Talks Turn into Fights — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Tue, 14 Sep 2021 04:01:00 +0000

Fighting with your wife — When you tell her she’s being ‘hormonal’ why does it typically erupt in flames? Why do heated conversations tend to spiral into infernos? And is it more important to win the fight or find a solution? How to put out fires w/your partner. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/09/fighting-with-your-wife

Adrian Grenier: Success, Failure, and Rebirth

Tue, 31 Aug 2021 08:36:18 +0000

Adrian Grenier (Vincent Chase, HBO’s Entourage). Compared to Chase’s fantasy life, Adrian’s life had its share of ups and downs: his insatiable need to prove himself, the event that kicked his ass, and how he’s redefined himself since. @adriangrenier @ducontra2021 https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/08/adrian-grenier-investing You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Rickson Gracie – How to Win Without a Fight

Sat, 14 Aug 2021 17:57:38 +0000

Rickson Gracie (Breathe: A Life in Flow). Brazilian Jiu Jitsu legend opens up about becoming a spiritual warrior, the loss of his son, and finding comfort in hell. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/08/rickson-gracie-breathe-interview You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

This Doc Wants to Wake Your Ass Up – ZDoggMD Zubin Damania

Tue, 03 Aug 2021 05:00:00 +0000

If you speak the truth could you lose your career? Is there more to life than striving for something we don’t already have? Dr. Zubin Damania aka ZDogg MD aka Doc Vader on breaking the mold, playfulness, and waking up. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/08/zdoggmd-zubin-damania-interview You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Imposter Syndrome – Is it You Against the World? — Tripp Lanier

Wed, 21 Jul 2021 02:23:39 +0000

Does imposter syndrome make you feel like it’s all gonna come crashing down? Ever feel like it’s you against the world? We discuss pressure, perfectionism, and why we need to tune into our bigger selves to pull us out of hell. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/07/imposter-syndrome

How to Create Anti-Fragile Confidence (Part 3) – Brian Johnson

Tue, 06 Jul 2021 07:00:00 +0000

How to Develop Anti-Fragile Confidence: Are you focused on what’s important or putting out fires? What does it mean to be ruthless with your focus? Optimize/Heroic CEO Brian Johnson on dealing with pressure, distractions, and developing anti-fragile confidence. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/07/brian-johnson-antifragile-confidence You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

How to Level Up Without Burning Out – Steven Kotler (The Art of Impossible)

Wed, 23 Jun 2021 06:10:50 +0000

Steven Kotler (The Art of Impossible: A Peak Performance Primer) discusses peak performance, burn out, and goals. Whether you’re trying to change the world or just get through a lousy week — these are the keys to leveling up without burning out. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/06/steven-kotler-art-of-impossible

What if Surrender is the Opposite of Defeat? – Kute Blackson (The Magic of Surrender)

Wed, 09 Jun 2021 02:55:12 +0000

What if Surrender is the Opposite of Defeat? What if your goals are rooted in lies and wounds? Kute Blackson (The Magic of Surrender) discusses what’s beyond our anxious, fearful need to hustle, force, and control everything. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/06/kute-blackson-surrender

How to Stop Bitching and Create What You Want – Shana James, MA

Wed, 26 May 2021 02:51:08 +0000

Shana James (Power and Pleasure) discusses what to do if your partner gives you a hard time because you want more sex, why we feel guilty for wanting fun outside of family and work, plus what we can do to avoid becoming grumpy old men. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/05/shana-james-power-pleasure

Psychedelics and Getting Out of Your Own Way — Will Van Derveer, MD

Tue, 11 May 2021 07:00:00 +0000

What if your perspective on the world — instead of the world itself — was holding you back? Why do psychedelics have such a lasting impact when combined with therapy? Dr. Will Van Derveer on pros and cons of psychedelic-assisted therapy. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/05/psychedelic-assisted-therapy "This Book Will Make You Dangerous" is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. It's now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Is Believing in God Dangerous? — Jamie Wheal, Recapture the Rapture

Mon, 26 Apr 2021 14:00:33 +0000

Is it dangerous to believe in god or something bigger than yourself? What do Mars colonization, cults, and the pursuit of heavenly salvation have in common? And why are so many of us feeling spiritually lost? Jamie Wheal is the co-author of Stealing Fire and the executive director of the Flow Genome Project. He’s returned to discuss his latest book, Recapture the Rapture. Today we talk about the world’s crisis of meaning, why groups sometimes make us dumber, and trying to fill the god-shaped hole in our hearts. In this interview: Rabbi Zalman Shachter, LSD, and being a Jew Trying to ignore our faith When Buddha, Lao Tzu, and other traditions don’t fit Why so many of us long for god Being “cosmic-orphans” Plus: Why we’re in a “meaning crisis” Our longing to escape the grind of life The power of the death-rebirth experience Communities that mean good but go bad Why cults are a feature of being human Do we get dumber as members of a group? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/04/jamie-wheal-recapture-the-rapture You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

Go From Poopy-Pants to Power — Tripp Lanier

Tue, 20 Apr 2021 07:00:26 +0000

Tired of feeling uninspired or “meh?” Tired of hearing yourself bitch and complain? And why do we choose to “cover our ass, kiss ass, or prove we’re not an ass?” In this short video, we explore a simple process to use our mood to our advantage. In this episode: Why do moods matter? What causes our moods? Why are we giving up our power? The 3 step process to shift a lousy mood into empowering action Why do we choose to “cover our ass, kiss ass, or prove we’re not an ass?” https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/04/use-mood-to-your-advantage You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

Aren’t We All a Little Crazy? Mental Illness to Peak Performance — Keith Kurlander

Tue, 06 Apr 2021 07:00:11 +0000

What if your normal level of stress, anxiety, or depression didn’t have to be normal? Do you feel like you’re using work, alcohol, or something else to outrun the uncomfortable thoughts in your head? And how can we use our stress and darkness to help us live a more full, rewarding life? Before Keith Kurlander became a founder of the Integrative Psychiatry Center, he struggled with serious mental health issues. He ran away from the promise of a highly lucrative life on Wall Street to find relief on a path which took many, many turns. He worked with everyone from yoga teachers to therapists to meds to shamans to psychedelics to you name it. He tried it. But none of those approaches alone worked for him. These days he’s dialed in his brain, his body, and his behaviors and his life is back on track. So what worked? What had him go from struggling to get off the couch to being a husband and father leading two companies today? Today we explore his story and the reality that all of us deal with some form of mental illness on some level. Here’s to all of us realizing that maybe, just maybe we don’t have to hide, outrun, or settle if we don’t want to. In this interview: What if everyone has a bit of mental illness? Trying to outrun our inner critic, dark thoughts, emotions Moving from mental illness to peak performance The stigma of struggling with anxiety and depression Do we have to blow up our lives in order to make a change? Plus: Running away from Wall Street and a lucrative career Keith’s experiences with mental illness and bipolar disorder Seeking relief through spiritual growth How ayahuasca effected Keith’s brain Keith’s experience with meds And: What approaches help us heal mental illness What is integrative psychiatry and why is it so powerful? Why you need to be the authority of your path Integrating psychedelics, ketamine, and functional medicine with traditional therapies And then: Betraying ourselves and pushing down that inner voice Wound worshipping and getting stuck in “healing” Mental disorders are chosen because we get something from them What is spiritual bypassing? What to ask yourself if you’re tired of feeling stuck https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/04/mental-illness-peak-performance You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

Build Confidence: There is No Secret Sauce — Tripp Lanier

Wed, 24 Mar 2021 07:00:54 +0000

Do you struggle to follow through on the stuff you know you need to be doing? Do you get “shiny object syndrome” and change course too often? And do you fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others or putting folks on a pedestal? In this video, I share the story of a coaching client who used his business to transform his mindset and become more confident in the process. In this video: Lacking follow through on the important things Shiny object syndrome — switching strategies Comparing ourselves to others Putting others on a pedestal Looking for the “secret sauce”, hacks, or cheat codes Also: Building confidence through consistency Staying the course Making sure goals don’t drive you into the ground Getting through the tough stuff The key to peace of mind https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/03/build-confidence You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

How Do You Deal with Criticism? (Part 2) – Brian Johnson

Mon, 08 Mar 2021 14:12:03 +0000

Are you following the herd or taking the lead? What’s driving your chronic dissatisfaction and frustration? And how can rubbing people the wrong way be an indicator that you’re on the right track? Heroic Public Benefit Corporation founder, Brian Johnson returns for part 2 in our series. Today we talk about trolls, anger, and using our deep fear of being misunderstood for a greater good. When we see someone do the extraordinary, most of the time we only see the impressive outcomes while the gritty, uncomfortable, awkward stuff stays in the shadows. This series is a behind the scenes look as Brian undergoes his own hero’s journey to bring Heroic into the world. As a coach, I help people navigate this uncertain, challenging terrain everyday, and my hope is that by witnessing Brian’s ups and downs, we can take away some wisdom for our own journey’s. At the time of this recording, Brian’s raising $11 million to get the ball rolling, and Heroic stands to be the first company in history to raise $5 million through crowdfunding. There’s so much more to his grand vision, and you can learn more by visiting wefunder.com/heroic. In this interview: Why do we criticize people who are more courageous than us? How to tell if you’re playing the victim? How can anger and criticism be used for good? Are you defensive or curious? Can you learn to challenge others without vitriol? Plus: Ken Wilber “No one is 100% wrong.” How to address toxic comments on social media? What kills a democracy? What is Cosmic Rage? How to combat the erosion of common decency? And: What’s beyond attention economics? Why become a Public Benefit Corporation? How do you act in a sacred environment vs social media? What’s the difference between anger and aggression? How to feel more full and satisfied on a daily basis? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/03/brian-johnson-heroic-2 You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

Competitive Mindset: Is There More to Life than Winning and Losing? — Tripp Lanier

Wed, 03 Mar 2021 14:00:00 +0000

Make the most of your competitive mindset without turning life into a pissing match. Tips for dealing with the fear of missing out, losing, and that time I got diarrhea from the FSU vs Miami football game. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/03/more-to-life-than-winning-losing You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

Is There More to Life Than Chasing Money or Importance? — Doc G

Tue, 16 Feb 2021 09:00:41 +0000

Do you worry that you’re on the wrong path in life? Are you focused on goals and outcomes or doing what you actually enjoy? And what if there’s more to life than chasing money or the need to be important? Before Doc G became a writer and host of the Earn and Invest podcast, he was like many doctors. But after years spent chasing outcomes, money and building an ideal version of himself, he realized he was in a trap. Today we discuss how he reinvented his personal and professional life based on what gave him a sense of aliveness and meaning. We’ll also dive into our fixation on money, safety, and why death can be a wonderful teacher. In this interview: Is life forcing you to change? Who are you if you’re not chasing money? Joseph Campbell on feeling alive Doing things to prove we’re enough Why ego gets in the way of meaning or purpose Plus: Why Doc G got depressed once he was financially free Thinking if you were someone else you’d be free once and for all Redefining your life based on what brings aliveness and meaning Chasing outcomes instead of enjoying the process Dealing with resistance and self-doubt Searching for “hacks” to avoid discomfort, risk, and vulnerability And: How dealing with death on a regular basis impacts our ability to live What is hospice? What is the dying process like? How does spirituality affect our ability to die peacefully? The fear of dying with peace instead of regrets https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/02/doc-g-earn-invest You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

Winning Your Inner Civil War (Part 1) – Brian Johnson

Tue, 02 Feb 2021 09:00:57 +0000

Do you have a sense that something is rumbling in your soul, trying to get out? Do you feel confused about who you are professionally? And are you waiting until you feel ready, or are you building the world you want to live in? Philosopher and CEO, Brian Johnson is back. This time he’s set his sights on an ambitious goal to create a company that will change the world. The Heroic Public Benefit Corporation is a platform that will provide the tools for optimal living as well as an online community that will become the answer to The Social Dilemma. At the time of this recording, Brian’s raising $11 million to get the ball rolling, and Heroic stands to be the first company in history to raise $5 million through crowdfunding. There’s so much more to his grand vision, and you can learn more by visiting wefunder.com/heroic. Now if you’re like most of us, you may have a sense that there’s something calling you to the next level of your life. Perhaps you’re not clear about the role you’re supposed to play or maybe you just don’t want to rock the boat. Brian is no different. And so as Heroic finds it’s footing in the world, he’s agreed to pull back the curtain and let us in on his personal process. Throughout this series of interviews, we’ll ride along with Brian through his hero’s journey — and find our own gold along the way. In this interview: Heeding the call to go big Dealing with ambivalence “Am I a philosopher or a CEO?” “What one can be, one must be.” Maslow Walt Whitman, “Simmering, simmering, simmering…to a boil” “What kind of world do I want to live in and what am I going to do about it?” Building the answer to “The Social Dilemma” Plus: Confronting self-doubt Meditation to increase personal power Phil Stutz and leaning into the things that scare you Does pain or discomfort mean something is wrong? Wanting to find the hack, cheat code, or short cut How do we know if we’re on the “wrong” path? And: Trusting yourself instead of doing what makes others feel comfortable The key to becoming anti-fragile Hustling and success that makes us “weak” Burning ourselves up and out in order to impress others Is ambition a dirty word? Living and working in service of something bigger than yourself No more waiting to lead https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/02/brian-johnson-heroic You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

Are You Selling Your Soul? — John Jantsch

Tue, 19 Jan 2021 09:00:40 +0000

John Jantsch (The Self-Reliant Entrepreneur) discusses how our deeper values play a role in our success. If you’re tired of the typical, hyper-achievement BS that passes for business advice, then this conversation will be a breath of fresh air. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/01/Self-reliant-entrepreneur-john-jantsch You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

The Truth About Relationships – Neil Strauss (Replay)

Tue, 05 Jan 2021 09:00:42 +0000

Neil Strauss (“The Truth”, “The Game”) discusses the gritty truth about his experiences with infidelity, sex rehab, sex clubs, open relationships — you name it. Enjoy this classic interview from The New Man Podcast with Tripp Lanier. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/01/neil-strauss-the-truth You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

The Tools to Get Out of Your Own Way – Barry Michels (Replay)

Tue, 15 Dec 2020 09:00:38 +0000

We revisit Barry Michels’ classic interview on The New Man Podcast. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/12/barry-michels-tools-coming-alive You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

Not Everybody Gets to Be King: The Mindset Difference Between a Leader and a Follower — Tripp Lanier

Tue, 08 Dec 2020 11:00:37 +0000

Not everybody gets to be king. What’s the mindset difference between a leader and a follower? Are you a king hiding out as a knight? And how do we define success on our own terms? In this short lesson, we explore the major mindset differences between a leader and a follower. We discuss why so many of us are “kings in hiding,” as well as some practical tools to own our creative, visionary energy in service of something greater than ourselves. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/12/difference-between-leader-follower You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

Motivation Beyond Fear: Underachievers vs Overachievers — Tripp Lanier

Tue, 01 Dec 2020 09:00:53 +0000

Finding motivation beyond fear. Why underachievers and overachievers are typically driven by fear. Developing self leadership skills to get out of feast or famine and “never enough.” Also: turning pro, finding flow, and tips to follow through. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/12/motivation-beyond-fear-underachievers-overachievers You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

No More Mr. Nice Guy – Dr. Robert Glover (Replay)

Tue, 24 Nov 2020 09:00:46 +0000

No More Mr. Nice Guy (Dr. Robert Glover) What is Nice Guy Syndrome? Why do nice guys struggle in relationships and work? Plus, the four steps for getting out of Nice Guy Syndrome. (This is a replay of a previous episode.) https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/11/no-more-mr-nice-guy You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

Am I With the Right Person? — Tripp Lanier

Tue, 17 Nov 2020 09:00:58 +0000

Why we get stuck in unsatisfying relationships. Understanding the purpose of your relationship, tips for creating more alignment so you don’t have to settle. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/11/relationship-struggles You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

How to Meditate for Mindfulness — Tripp Lanier

Fri, 13 Nov 2020 13:22:04 +0000

What’s the point of meditation? How does it help us bounce back from fear and reactivity? And what’s it like to meditate in a room full of farting people? Today, Tripp Lanier shares some insights gained from 20+ years of meditation plus why he insists that his coaching clients develop a coaching practice. In this video: Why bother meditating? Why your hobby isn’t a meditation Flow states vs meditative states Different types of meditation Developing the “witness” or mindfulness Plus: A basic overview for how to meditate Meditating in a room full of farting people The upside to having a consistent meditation practice How meditation helps us become better leaders Become the “chairman of the board” in our minds https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/11/how-to-meditate-for-mindfulness You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

The War of Art, Fear, and Resistance (Replay) – Steven Pressfield

Tue, 03 Nov 2020 08:00:25 +0000

Steven Pressfield The War of Art. Ready to turn pro and do the work? Legendary author Steven Pressfield talks about beating resistance, getting out of your own way, and finding your calling. This is a replay of the classic interview from The New Man Podcast. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com

Why You (Probably) Don’t Need to Be More Productive — Tripp Lanier

Tue, 27 Oct 2020 08:00:53 +0000

Do you wonder how to be more productive? Are you busy but still feel like you’re not doing enough? Today we explore the possibility that our desire for greater productivity may be rooted in fear and delusion. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/10/how-to-be-more-productive

Divide and Conquer: Avoid the Trap — Tripp Lanier

Tue, 20 Oct 2020 08:00:35 +0000

"I was a mercenary set out to divide and conquer.” Are we being manipulated to believe today's funhouse mirror version of reality? How to have a powerful mindset when everyone acts like turd tossing toddlers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/10/divide-conquer

Integrity: What if We Weren’t So Full of Sh*t? — Tripp Lanier

Tue, 13 Oct 2020 08:00:19 +0000

A quick dive into the uncomfortable topic of integrity. Let’s shine a light on the ways we fudge the truth, the costs of doing so, and the opportunity to use honesty to great advantage. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/10/personal-integrity

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k (Replay) – Mark Manson

Tue, 06 Oct 2020 08:00:46 +0000

We revisit Mark Manson’s interview on The New Man (“The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k”). Why many believe being average is a failure and why we’d be better off if we weren’t so focused on being so special. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/10/mark-manson-interview

Is Playing it Safe Killing Your Motivation? — Tripp Lanier

Tue, 29 Sep 2020 08:00:57 +0000

What’s killing your motivation? Is there more to life than making money or being exceptional? And why do so many fathers and husbands forget how to feel alive? How to rebuild our inner fire. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/09/playing-it-safe-2

Why Bother Loving Yourself? (Replay) – Kamal Ravikant

Tue, 22 Sep 2020 08:00:35 +0000

“Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It” author and renaissance man Kamal Ravikant is here to discuss the dangers of being driven by fear plus a simple practice to build confidence and bounce back after a challenge. This is a replay of one of Kamal Ravikant’s classic interview on The New Man. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/09/kamal-ravikant-love-yourself

Using Play to Deal with Stress and Anxiety — Jason Goldberg

Tue, 15 Sep 2020 08:00:21 +0000

Stress and Anxiety: Jason Goldberg (Prison Break) on avoiding negative emotions, the real power that comes from putting fear into perspective, and why true peace of mind comes from remembering that we can take a punch. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/09/jason-goldberg Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. "This Book Will Make You Dangerous" is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. "This Book Will Make You Dangerous" is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.

The Obstacle is the Way (Replay) – Ryan Holiday

Tue, 08 Sep 2020 08:00:04 +0000

Ryan Holiday’s classic interview on The New Man. (Author of "The Obstacle is the Way", "Ego is the Enemy", and "The Daily Stoic" among many others.) Practical tips on dealing with adversity, how chasing perfection paralyzes us, and identifying true power and bravery. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/09/ryan-holiday-interview

Are Weight Lifting and Cardio a Waste of Time? — Dr. John Jaquish

Mon, 31 Aug 2020 15:50:00 +0000

Dr. John Jaquish is a scientist, inventor, and author of Weight Lifting is a Waste of Time: So is Cardio, and There’s a Better Way to Have the Body You Want. He’s very outspoken about how the fitness industry is a failure, and he believes he has the scientific data to back up his claims. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/08/john-jaquish-weight-lifting-waste-of-time

Tim Ferriss (Replay) – How to Be Kickass Fast

Wed, 26 Aug 2020 08:00:47 +0000

We revisit Tim Ferriss’s classic interview on The New Man Podcast. In this conversation, the "4-Hour Workweek" and "4-Hour Body" author discusses how to learn anything quickly, dealing with fear and failure, how to gain confidence, and the mindset for success. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/08/tim-ferriss-interview

Give Up or Stick it Out? Tough Love Swimming Lessons and The Hollywood Montage (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) – Tripp Lanier

Tue, 18 Aug 2020 08:00:03 +0000

Knowing When to Quit - An excerpt from "This Book Will Make You Dangerous" by Tripp Lanier. Learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/08/when-to-quit

Motivation, Clarity, and Why Kids Suck (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) – Tripp Lanier

Tue, 11 Aug 2020 08:00:18 +0000

Motivation, Clarity, and Why Kids Suck - An excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous by Tripp Lanier. Learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/08/motivation-clarity

Dealing with Analysis Paralysis and Self Sabotage (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) – Tripp Lanier

Tue, 04 Aug 2020 16:36:56 +0000

Dealing with Analysis Paralysis and Self Sabotage - An excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous by Tripp Lanier. Learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/08/analysis-paralysis-self-sabotage

Is it Time to Redefine Yourself? — JP Bouvet

Tue, 28 Jul 2020 08:00:08 +0000

JP Bouvet is a world class drummer that has lived through one of my recurring nightmares — twice. In this talk we explore our fear of face planting in front of others, the importance of meaning in our work, and why he’s chosen to redefine himself professionally. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/07/jp-bouvet

Why Comedy Will Save Your Sanity – Kyle Kinane

Wed, 22 Jul 2020 13:00:04 +0000

Comedian Kyle Kinane (Comedy Central, Trampoline in a Ditch) discusses why we need to laugh at ourselves, getting caught up in comparisons, and confronting our fear of rejection. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/07/kyle-kinane-trampoline-in-a-ditch

Mindfulness, Meditation, and Riding Emotional Waves – Jaimal Yogis

Tue, 14 Jul 2020 08:00:53 +0000

Jaimal Yogis (Saltwater Buddha, The Fear Project) on mindfulness, meditation, and riding emotional waves. Also discussed: fatherhood, common misconceptions about meditation, and the trap of trying to outrun what makes us uncomfortable. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/07/jaimal-yogis

Fear of Failure and Choosing to Play Big (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) – Tripp Lanier

Tue, 07 Jul 2020 12:11:41 +0000

Fear of failure, choosing to play big, and getting over yourself - An excerpt from "This Book Will Make You Dangerous" by Tripp Lanier. Learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/07/this-book-will-make-you-dangerous-fear-of-failure

What Can a Porn Star Teach You About Sex? — Erik Everhard

Tue, 30 Jun 2020 08:00:47 +0000

Erik Everhard, author of Unleash Your Sexual Superpowers has been in the porn industry for over 20 years. He’s had sex with over 4,000 women. Today we discuss what it was like to have such a unique career, how he ended up feeling lost, and how he found his way again after learning how to help others. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/06/erik-everhard-book

The Key to Negotiating and Resolving Conflict – Kwame Christian, American Negotiation Institute

Mon, 22 Jun 2020 13:30:04 +0000

Kwame Christian, Director of American Negotiation Institute discusses how ego, vanity, and “calling out” get in the way of resolving conflicts with family, business, politics, and race. Plus: tips for having more effective online discussions. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/06/kwame-christian-negotiation-conflict-resolution

Is it Safe to Talk About Race? — Mark Palmer

Mon, 15 Jun 2020 13:15:02 +0000

Recently I learned a valuable lesson: that I could actually talk to my black friends about race instead of making assumptions and relying on the media or some idealogical group to tell me what to say, think, or do. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/06/how-to-talk-about-race

The Starbucks Shootout (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt ) – Tripp Lanier

Tue, 02 Jun 2020 08:00:30 +0000

The Starbucks Shootout — Why trying not to screw up has us screw things up. An excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous by Tripp Lanier. Learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/06/this-book-will-make-you-dangerous-the-starbucks-shootout

How to Use Death to Become More Powerful (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) – Tripp Lanier

Tue, 26 May 2020 08:00:05 +0000

How to Use Death to Become More Powerful. An excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous by Tripp Lanier. Learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/05/this-book-will-make-you-dangerous-step-into-power

How to Stop Playing it Safe – Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Tue, 19 May 2020 08:00:11 +0000

Do you ever play it safe when it comes to money or sex? Do you take risks or only go for what appears to be a “sure thing?” How to get out of your own way, stop playing it safe, and find that mojo again. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/05/playing-it-safe

That Time I Went to the Butt Doctor (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) – Tripp Lanier

Tue, 12 May 2020 07:00:20 +0000

The audiobook introduction from This Book Will Make You Dangerous by Tripp Lanier. A very unconventional look at why I throw most success how-to books in the trash. Learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/05/this-book-will-make-you-dangerous-tripp-lanier

Facing Fear: Only the Dead Survive – Tripp Lanier Group Coaching Call

Wed, 06 May 2020 20:52:05 +0000

With so much uncertainty, how do you deal with the uncomfortable feelings? What if it all came crashing down? What could possibly exist on the other side of your worst nightmare? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/05/facing-fear

Confronting Fear, Scarcity, and Pressure — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

Tue, 07 Apr 2020 20:45:53 +0000

Confronting Fear, Scarcity, and Pressure. Will you follow the herd that’s freaking out or find the opportunity? Plus: using discomfort to find clarity, forging your own path, and why most guys settle. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/04/fear-scarcity-pressure

Playing a Game We Can’t Win — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

Tue, 10 Mar 2020 10:00:43 +0000

What do we do when success is unfulfilling? Do you think more success and status are the keys to lasting fulfillment? And what happens when our achievements leave us feeling empty? Plus: victim mentality and our comfort zone https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/03/unfulfilling-success

Maybe You Don’t Have Commitment Issues — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

Tue, 03 Mar 2020 16:00:35 +0000

If you want more out of life then what’s really getting in the way? Why do we have such a hard time making a commitment? And what’s so wrong with trying to live happily ever after? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/03/commitment-issues

How to Get Out of Your Own Way — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

Tue, 25 Feb 2020 11:00:49 +0000

How pro coach and New Man podcast host Tripp Lanier went from very confident to very lost; how he spent years dicking around while waiting for the perfect plan; and how he finally pulled his head out of his ass and got back on track. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/02/get-out-your-own-way

A Bold Way to Start a Relationship — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

Tue, 18 Feb 2020 11:00:37 +0000

Tripp and Alyson Lanier discuss a bold way to start a relationship, making commitments, and the danger of being a nice guy. Also: Way of the Superior Man by David Deida, truth vs comfort, and the danger of waiting for the perfect plan. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/02/starting-relationship

From Imposter Syndrome to Being Unf—kwithable — Ash Ambirge

Tue, 11 Feb 2020 06:00:57 +0000

Have you ever suffered from “imposter syndrome”? Are you okay with simply chasing money or do you want your work to be meaningful, too? And how often do you tell yourself, “I will figure this out”? Today, The Middle Finger Project author Ash Ambirge is here to discuss how she went from growing up in a trailer park to middle class success to sleeping in a K-Mart parking lot with only $26 to her name to eventually making seven figures. In this interview: Growing up in a trailer park Being mentally tough Being willing to rock the boat Striving for middle class Why becoming “normal” was so disappointing Plus: Dealing with imposter syndrome The feeling of “I don’t know what I’m supposed to do next.” Doing work you’re proud of Wanting our work to align with our values Feeling guilty for wanting more out of life And: Ash’s “sleeping in a K-Mart parking lot” story “I will figure it out.” The key to being “Unf*ckwithable” The trouble of not having your own money Learning how to provide value You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//

Should You Settle or Blow Up Your Life? — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

Tue, 04 Feb 2020 06:00:07 +0000

Do you feel guilty for wanting more out of life? Is it possible to outgrow your current profession or relationship? And would you have to blow up everything you care about in order to make a big change? Today my wife Alyson and I pick up where we left off in the previous episode entitled, The Emotionally Constipated Control Freak. In this conversation we explore taking responsibility for what we want, the seduction of settling, and the one question that kicked me in the gut. In this interview: Living a split life “Stop being a spoiled brat.” Focusing on problems vs solutions Feeling guilty for wanting more out of life Plus: Have you outgrown your life? The Drama Triangle - Victim, Persecutor, Rescuer Shifting from bitching to focusing on what you want Are you defensive or curious? The fear of being broke and alone And: “Do you feel like you’re settling?” The myth: “I have to blow up my life in order to make a change.” Are you being lulled to sleep? Waiting for the perfect, safe plan The phone call that changed Tripp’s life Interviews and videos discussed: David Emerald interview Drama Triangle video You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//

The Emotionally Constipated Control Freak — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

Tue, 28 Jan 2020 02:53:16 +0000

How important is it for you to be in control? Do you ever feel like your life is out of alignment with your values? And what does it take to forgive someone who has hurt you deeply? Today my wife, Alyson Lanier gets curious about the emotionally constipated guy I used to be back in my early 20’s. We talk about why I went to therapy, why I hated the idea of personal growth, and how my life looked amazing from the outside but was a fragmented mess on the inside. In this interview: Does Alyson have a fart fetish? Being a control freak Trying to outrun my emotional world Being afraid of women Navigating an emotional minefield Plus: Why I went to therapy Dealing with loss Considering suicide The difference between relief and peace of mind “The peace I was deeply wanting was on the other side of that thing I was avoiding.” And: Ken Wilber’s The Marriage of Sense and Soul Being out of alignment with inner values “They’re going to think I’m weird.” Playing it safe professionally “Is this it? What now? Why can’t I just be happy here?” You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//

How to Treat Your Body Like a Pro — Jon Mitchell

Tue, 21 Jan 2020 06:00:20 +0000

Lebron James spends $1 million dollars per year on his health. What do you spend to ensure that your body doesn’t hold you back? Functional Medicine Health Consultant Jon Mitchell is here to challenge the dogmatic, cookie cutter approaches so that you can dial in the unique protocol that works best for your body. In this interview: Why so many are settling for aches, pains, and low energy Why regular docs aren’t always the best resource Why chasing your problem with supplements isn’t sustainable Why cookie cutter diets don’t work for everyone Erectile dysfunction as it relates to your health Plus: Are you a liability to yourself, performance, and quality of life? Why health is the vehicle for having the life you want Peace of mind knowing that your body is on track Playing the amateur or choosing to turn pro Cutting through the noise of online experts and gurus and diets You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//

Neil Peart: Lessons Learned About How to Live Life On Your Terms

Fri, 17 Jan 2020 13:00:53 +0000

Tripp Lanier discusses facing our fears of failure and criticism. Here are a few brief lessons learned from legendary Rush drummer, Neil Peart about living life on your own terms. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Productivity and The Shadow Side of Goals — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

Tue, 14 Jan 2020 13:50:33 +0000

As someone who makes a living coaching others to accomplish goals, Tripp discusses how our goals can become a trap. Plus: Glorifying busy-ness, how our mindless pursuit “more” is lazy, and why our need to prove that we’re not a failure is making us weak. In this interview: The trap of proving we’re not a failure Why protecting, pleasing, and proving kills our peace of mind Glorifying busy-ness Trying to carry 6 gallons in a 5 gallon bucket Plus: The shadow side of goals Having a great life that’s unfulfilling The difference between comfort and peace Using your emotions as information Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Defining Success and Strength on Your Own Terms — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

Tue, 07 Jan 2020 11:00:13 +0000

After coaching successful men for over 15 years, Tripp boils down what kills our freedom, aliveness, and peace of mind. Does success really mean we’re stronger? How can we get off the hamster wheel of “more, more, more”? And what would it mean to define success and strength on your own terms? Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Following Your Passion is Hard as Hell — Dr. Eric Goodman, Foundation Training

Tue, 10 Dec 2019 15:50:42 +0000

Following Your Passion is Hard as Hell. My friend Eric Goodman is the creator of Foundation Training. He’s built a global movement by empowering people to overcome back pain. But like many passion-driven businesses, behind the scenes it’s been extremely challenging. Today we talk about growth, failure, chaos, and the fantasy that building a business around your passion should somehow be a cakewalk. #foundationtraining #doafounder #mindset #entrepreneur #business #motivation #success #entrepreneurship Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Bigots and Snowflakes — What Do You Have in Common? Integral Theory with Jeff Salzman, The Daily Evolver

Mon, 25 Nov 2019 19:17:01 +0000

Are you bored with the whole left vs right, culture war gridlock? What if there was a way that this dumpster fire could make us stronger? And could you possibly find common ground with your bigot uncle this holiday season? Jeff Salzman (The Daily Evolver) discusses Ken Wilber’s integral theory and how it can help us navigate our conflicted world. #integral #kenwilber #culturewar Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Bold or Reckless? A Rollercoaster of Losses and Wins – David Perel, Pro Racing Driver

Tue, 12 Nov 2019 13:44:44 +0000

David Perel gave up his dream of being a pro racing driver and became a tech startup founder. But dreams die hard. In this crazy story, David recalls his bold (and sometimes reckless) choices to go against the odds to race at the highest level. #granturismosport #gtsport #ferrari #lamborghini #motorsport #blancpaingtseries #lemans Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Metallica, Miracles, and the Megaforce of Will — Jon “Jonny Z” Zazula

Tue, 22 Oct 2019 10:00:16 +0000

Jon Zazula (Heavy Tales) and his wife Marsha are legends in the metal music industry. With Megaforce Records they discovered Metallica and launched a genre of music that marches on to this day. That said, the road to fame and fortune was a very rocky road. Today, Jonny Z and I discuss his path from Wall Street to jail to metal hall of fame. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Can Masturbation Change Your Life? — Alyssa Morin

Tue, 08 Oct 2019 12:25:05 +0000

Could changing the way you masturbate change your life? Somatic Sex Educator Alyssa Morin discusses settling for lousy pleasure, what hipster beers can teach us about sex, and why trying to be a “sexual master” often backfires. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Facing Fear Head On – The 3 Phases of a Challenge

Tue, 17 Sep 2019 10:00:56 +0000

How to face fear. Understanding the 3 phases of a challenge — When we’re in the creative process and we’re looking at the next scary step it’s helpful to understand what we’re really facing. Often this is where we drain ourselves and get stuck because we can only see our challenge from one perspective instead of three. In this quick podcast we break down our challenge into its three main parts so we can take action. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Are We Making Life Harder Than it Needs to Be? — Brian Johnson

Thu, 05 Sep 2019 08:00:03 +0000

Brian Johnson of Philosophers Notes and Optimize.me discusses perfectionism, the inner critic, understanding the whole point of life, and why he blames Tripp Lanier for his $2 million dollar business “experiment.” Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

How to Find Your Zone of Genius – Gay Hendricks

Tue, 20 Aug 2019 09:00:49 +0000

What is your Zone of Genius and how do you find it? Do you have to blow up your life if you want to reinvent yourself? And why do some folks sabotage their success? Guest: Gay Hendricks (The Big Leap) Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

What’s the Difference Between Rich and Wealthy? – Brian Portnoy

Tue, 06 Aug 2019 14:26:24 +0000

Brian Portnoy, author of Geometry of Wealth discusses the difference between being rich and wealthy, funding contentment, and answering the question, “Am I going to be okay?” Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

The Inner Critic: When Success Makes Us Weak — Dr. Michael Gervais

Tue, 23 Jul 2019 12:00:55 +0000

Dr. Michael Gervais is a high performance psychologist who works with the Seattle Seahawks and Fortune 100 companies. Today we pick apart the myths of being a high performer, understand the inner critic, and reveal the key ingredient to enjoying the life we want. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Money, Mindset, and Comedy – Paul Ollinger

Wed, 10 Jul 2019 12:24:56 +0000

Paul Ollinger (Crazy Money Podcast) busted his ass, cashed out of Facebook, and became a stand up comic. Today we’re going to talk money being a major motivator, how our pursuit of a stress free life can burn us out, and why committing to success often makes us weak. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Meaning, Strength, and the Wolf Connection – Teo Alfero

Tue, 25 Jun 2019 10:00:42 +0000

Teo Alfero The Wolf Connection: Creating a life of meaning and heart. Leaving home to work with Carlos Castaneda, building a wolf sanctuary, and rigorous shamanistic trainings. Plus: what keeps us from living extraordinary lives, dealing with spiritual forces beyond our understanding. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Dating Essentials for Men Who Don’t Want to Be Jerks — Dr. Robert Glover

Tue, 11 Jun 2019 10:00:55 +0000

Robert Glover Dating Essentials for Men — Dating advice for guys who don’t want to be jerks. Finding high quality women, testing for interest, how to end dead end relationships with respect, and dealing with sh*t tests. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Excuses: How to Quickly Pivot into Power

Fri, 31 May 2019 12:27:42 +0000

Stop making excuses and quickly pivot into power. There are 3 main excuses that hold us back and have us play small. In this quick talk coach Tripp Lanier talks about how to identify resistance, confidence, motivation, and wisdom vs knowledge. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Mark Manson is Out to Kill Your Sacred Cows — Mark Manson

Fri, 10 May 2019 10:00:52 +0000

Mark Manson sold millions of copies of his last book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, and he’s back with a new one called Everything is F*cked. Today we talk about why he’s out to slaughter our sacred cows, why hope makes us fight one another, and why success was so difficult for him. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Why Play Makes Us Stronger – Peter Gray

Tue, 30 Apr 2019 21:06:48 +0000

If you’re one of those guys who is struggling to find what has you feel alive, it’s probably because you’ve forgotten how to truly play. Discussed: How studies show why play is the key to leadership, innovative thinking, problem solving, and doing what has us feel alive. Plus: Why our highly structured, competitive environment is making us weaker, depressed, and breeding us to become robots. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Relationships, Fighting, and Lack of Sex: What Can You Do? — Jayson Gaddis

Fri, 19 Apr 2019 11:32:35 +0000

Jayson Gaddis discusses Relationship Warrior, why we tolerate draining relationships, fighting, and a lack of sex. Are we doomed to be dissatisfied as the wimp or the posturing jerk? Plus, why erectile dysfunction most likely isn’t a medical issue. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

229 How to Align Your Work with Your Values — Jon Mitchell Functional Medicine

Thu, 28 Mar 2019 19:19:24 +0000

Jon Mitchell Functional Medicine Health Consultant put a lot of time, money, and energy into his career and then realized it wasn’t for him. Instead of staying stuck, Jon hired a coach, stopped hiding out, and created his own opportunities. In this interview we talked about how he shifted his mindset, turned pro, and took bold action to shift his career path. Also: How Jon Mitchell helps people optimize their bodies, brains, and energy and combats chronic disease.

228 What She’s Not Telling You – How to Communicate Without Arguing – Alyson Schwabe Lanier

Tue, 05 Mar 2019 11:00:25 +0000

Relationship Advice - How to Communicate Without Arguing. Relationships go off the rails when we believe we can’t talk about challenging things with our partner. We avoid certain topics because we’re afraid of a fight, strong emotions, rejection, or worse. Too many of us are settling and tolerating a relationship that leaves us feeling drained, trapped, stressed, or bored. In this discussion Tripp and Alyson Lanier share practical tips for getting relationships back on track.

227 Intuition and Trusting Your Gut – Rick Snyder

Thu, 21 Feb 2019 13:55:13 +0000

Intuition and Trusting Your Gut - Rick Snyder author of Decisive Intuition: Use Your Gut Instincts to Make Smart Business Decisions. Why denying our instincts makes us weak. How Snapchat’s Evan Spiegel lost billions by using intuition incorrectly. How to use your gut to be more powerful in life, work, and relationships.

226 Stuck: No Longer Passionate About Your Work? Time to Upgrade Your Mindset

Wed, 06 Feb 2019 11:00:47 +0000

No Longer Passionate About Work? An excerpt from a coaching conversation with Tripp Lanier. In this call, we explore some of the reasons why my client was feeling stuck and unable to see any attractive professional opportunities in front of him. Plus: How our mindset determines whether we’ll stay stuck doing the same old thing or if we’ll expand into the next phase of our lives.

225 How to Stop Coddling Yourself and Others – Jonathan Haidt

Thu, 24 Jan 2019 19:21:00 +0000

Jonathan Haidt thinks we frequently lie to ourselves as a way to rationalize emotional choices. So should we become Vulcans, living lives devoid of anything rewarding? Or can we tap into our emotions so that we’re more powerful? Plus we’ll also talk about how good intentions are creating a generation of fragile young people.

224 Motivation, Pressure, and Getting Off the Hamster Wheel — Craig Revord

Wed, 09 Jan 2019 11:00:17 +0000

Do you depend on fear for motivation? Do you make progress but still feel anxious, tired, or under pressure? And is success really just a strategy to outrun the things that scare you? In this conversation with Craig Revord we talk about how he’s learned to find power, face major fears, and get off the hamster wheel all while growing his business.

223 Energy, Power, and a Wife That Wants to Go to an Orgy — Rob Kandell

Wed, 19 Dec 2018 11:00:29 +0000

What if your wife asked you to go to an orgy? Rob Kandell (Unhidden) explores why so many guys are feeling drained and exhausted in our relationships and work. Also: Is it a challenging time to be a man? Plus how to reclaim power, energy, and confidence. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

222 How to Live When You Should Be Dead — Dave Baker

Wed, 28 Nov 2018 11:00:35 +0000

In May of 2007 at the age of 49, Dave Baker a competitive athlete and lifeguard went through, let’s just say, an “incident”. This is his story — what happened, how he recovered, and why he refused to just “exist” after getting a second chance at life. Guest: Dave Baker, Wrightsville Beach Ocean Rescue Director

220 How to Drop the Negativity – AJ Jacobs

Wed, 31 Oct 2018 10:00:24 +0000

Human guinea pig and bestselling author AJ Jacobs (Thanks a Thousand) returns to discuss what he’s learned from his latest long term experiment. This time he’s set out to explore what will make him less grouchy — and it all starts with a simple cup of coffee. Also: Year of Living Biblically, Drop Dead Healthy

219 Using Failure and Loss to Become Stronger — Coaching Call

Wed, 17 Oct 2018 10:00:29 +0000

Why do we stay in jobs and marriages way past their due date? Why are loss and failure critical to future success? How do we unconsciously self sabotage? Tripp and a coaching client discuss how to become stronger after a business failure. Plus: Phil Stutz and “Only the dead survive.” Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

218 What Fantasies Reveal About Your Mindset – Group Coaching Call

Wed, 03 Oct 2018 10:00:56 +0000

Are your goals making you unhappy? Are you busting butt to create a future that may never exist? What do our fantasies tell us about what we truly want in life? Here’s a simple way we can learn how to tap into unconscious beliefs in order to strengthen our mindset.

217 Is “Success” a Fantasy? Mastering Midlife – Mark Silverman

Wed, 19 Sep 2018 08:00:46 +0000

Midlife crisis and how to thrive as we age. Why guys can have a midlife crisis when they’re 30 or 50. Why hustling is often a symptom of an unhealthy mindset. Learning to master fear, uncertainty, and change.

216 How to Get Your Life Together – Joe Bernstein

Wed, 05 Sep 2018 10:00:03 +0000

Mission, Money, and Meaning. How to get your life together; How to identify the mindset that keeps us playing small; Where we find the most satisfaction; And how Joe Bernstein reinvented his life after divorce, career change, and losing 150 pounds.

For Coaches: Why Jerks Can Make Money

Thu, 23 Aug 2018 10:00:18 +0000

What’s the biggest threat to our coaching practice? And why can jerks make money? Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches Visit https://www.tripplanier.com/for-coaches/

For Coaches: Why Great Coaches Go Broke, Too

Tue, 21 Aug 2018 10:00:10 +0000

Why do some of the “best” coaches go broke? What else do we need other than coaching skills to have a thriving coaching practice? Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches.

For Coaches: Why Most Coaches Won’t Experience 10X Growth

Thu, 16 Aug 2018 10:00:47 +0000

What can we learn from a professional coach who experienced 10X growth within 18 months? And why are so few coaches unwilling to do what it takes to create a thriving coaching practice? Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches.

Overcome the Fear of Failure – You’re Not a Big Deal

Tue, 14 Aug 2018 10:00:53 +0000

What if you weren’t that big of a deal? What if your fear of failure was a waste of the precious time you have to be alive? In this episode we discuss some ideas for how to stop taking ourselves so seriously and make the most of our lives instead. It’s all a matter of perspective.

For Coaches: Take the Sting Out of Rejection

Thu, 09 Aug 2018 10:00:51 +0000

Rejection stings. And avoiding rejection will kill professional growth, too. Today we talk about ways to take the sting out of getting a “no”. Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches.

Making Excuses: Blowing Up Our Lives to Make a Big Change

Tue, 07 Aug 2018 10:00:53 +0000

Is it true we have to quit our job or jeopardize our family in order to create a big change? Let’s discuss resistance and the excuse that keeps us stuck at the starting line of our entire lives.

For Coaches: Why You’re Not Getting Penetration

Thu, 02 Aug 2018 10:00:36 +0000

Why aren’t you getting cool opportunities and referrals? Are you stuck in the dreaded Professional Friend Zone? Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches.

Leadership Skills – Nearly Pissing Away Millions Because of Fear

Wed, 01 Aug 2018 10:00:27 +0000

How one of Tripp’s coaching clients nearly pissed away millions because he was stuck in fear. What happens when we play not to lose vs focusing on what we want? Plus: learning to lead instead of micromanage. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Mindset for Success – Will F-You Money Slay Your Dragons?

Wed, 25 Jul 2018 10:00:08 +0000

Are you hoping one day you’ll be successful enough to finally feel free from life’s “dragons”? What’s the mindset to find lasting peace, freedom, and confidence? Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

45 Year Old Boys – Why Some Just Can’t Grow Up

Wed, 18 Jul 2018 10:00:30 +0000

Why is playing the victim the most natural thing we can do? And why is bitching, complaining and protesting a false sense of power? Learn the two basic keys to step out of chronic anxiety and disappointment. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/07/victim-mindset-anxiety Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Manliness – How Good Boys Become Manly Men

Wed, 11 Jul 2018 10:00:40 +0000

Why is the pursuit of manliness a trap? Who are the only guys who care about being ‘manly’? And how do we learn how to play our own game? Also discussed: don Miguel Ruiz and domestication. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/07/manliness Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Personal Growth Jackass – How to Tell if Optimization is a Distraction

Wed, 04 Jul 2018 10:00:43 +0000

What can Kenny Powers teach us about personal growth? Is optimizing your diet, meditation, mindset, and exercise a distraction from what’s most important? Here’s how to tell if you’re spinning your wheels. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/07/optimization-playing-small Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Hunter or Prey? How Are You Approaching Your Life?

Wed, 27 Jun 2018 10:00:13 +0000

When it comes to how we create our ideal lifestyle, relationship, and profession — are we acting like hunter or prey? Are we letting fear and urgency dilute our focus? Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/06/mindset-hunter-prey Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance

Success or Failure – Why Most Guys Will Fail

Tue, 19 Jun 2018 10:00:32 +0000

When it comes to success and failure, why are some guys able to make amazing things happen while most will not? Instead of making excuses, what if we looked at our mindset? In this episode we talk about how to tap into greater power and identify the things that hold us back.

Why Tough Guys Make it Hard to Solve Problems

Tue, 12 Jun 2018 10:00:48 +0000

When you’re facing a challenge do you hide out and withdraw from others? In this episode we talk about why “tough guys” aren’t so smart when it comes to solving problems.

Finding Your Purpose in Life – Stop Making it So Hard

Wed, 30 May 2018 10:00:08 +0000

Most guys are trying to find their big, magical purpose for life — the profession or calling that will make them plenty of money and getting up in the morning exciting. In this video I talk about why that’s a recipe for frustration plus what we can do instead to reveal what our purpose is without playing the victim.

FOMO, Scarcity, and the Need for More, More, MORE

Wed, 23 May 2018 10:00:32 +0000

When it comes to Purpose, how do we define what’s worth our time and energy? And how do we avoid the traps of FOMO, scarcity, and always needing more, more, and more along the way?

The Right Path: How to Tell if You’re on the Wrong Path in Life

Wed, 16 May 2018 10:00:49 +0000

How can you tell if you’re on the right path in life? What can you do if you believe you’re on the wrong path? In this video we discuss a simple tip to keep us from playing the victim.

Goals, Grit, and the Hero’s Journey

Wed, 09 May 2018 10:00:29 +0000

Today we’re going to talk about goals, the hero’s journey, and what we can do to stay off the hamster wheel of scarcity and fear in our lives.

The Blind Spot: Watching a Guy Get a BJ at the Beach

Wed, 02 May 2018 10:00:40 +0000

What I learned from watching a guy get a blow job at the beach. What do our friends talk about when we’re not there? What keeps us stuck in unhealthy patterns? And what do extraordinary guys do to keep it from happening to them?

Masculine Power: Why Won’t She Have Sex With Me?

Tue, 24 Apr 2018 12:43:39 +0000

Why would your partner want to have sex with you? How are you penetrating the world? Healthy masculine power, nice guy syndrome, and a practice that sounds insane — except it works.

The Inner Critic and Self Love: How to Be an Ally to Yourself

Tue, 17 Apr 2018 14:05:34 +0000

How to tame our inner critic, what does self love in a practical way, how to be an ally to yourself, Kamal Ravikant - Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It

Anxiety: If You Don’t Want Anxiety Then Attack

Wed, 11 Apr 2018 08:00:06 +0000

If you’re feeling anxiety, let’s talk about a quick way to create some ease while gaining a ton of power and energy. It just may not be the way you’d think it should be. Say no to tolerating and avoiding.

Productivity Hacks: Why You Won’t Need Them If You Shift Focus

Thu, 05 Apr 2018 08:00:08 +0000

How to quickly become more focused and effective. Insights into why we’re busy spinning our wheels instead of getting stuff done.

215 What if Nobody Could Hurt You? — Aubrey Marcus

Tue, 27 Mar 2018 13:30:16 +0000

Aubrey Marcus discusses open relationships, why (most) high achievers are driven by demons, life balance, finding power in surrender, how plant medicine rituals help him stay out of the traps that brings down so many other men. Want to CRUSH procrastination and mental resistance? Learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. Get started here: https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//

Scarcity Mindset and Perfectionism: From Procrastination to Power

Wed, 21 Mar 2018 08:00:33 +0000

Scarcity Mindset and Perfectionism: From Procrastination to Power. What makes us believe that we have to achieve perfection or have the perfect plan? And what can we do to step into power?

Motivation Hacks: Why Passion is Overrated

Wed, 14 Mar 2018 09:00:03 +0000

Motivation Hacks: Why passion is overrated. How to build your fire. Let’s take a look at the myth that says we need to be full of desire before we can do what’s most important.

Dave Chappelle on Making Excuses and How to Quit

Wed, 07 Mar 2018 09:00:51 +0000

A lesson learned from Dave Chappelle about quitting and giving up on our dreams. Plus why I was afraid to quit playing football, how we abandon what strengthens us, and how to stop making excuses.

Addicted to Self Help? When Big Ideas Make Us Small

Thu, 01 Mar 2018 13:00:21 +0000

Learning big ideas feels good. But what feels better than discovering the latest big idea? When does learning and preparing and researching get in the way of what’s most important?

Ryan Gosling the Pick Up Artist? Standing Out From the Crowd

Wed, 21 Feb 2018 09:00:08 +0000

Can you imagine if Ryan Gosling gave up on his strengths and played pick up artist games to get women? That’s what many guys are doing on a professional level. How guys are selling themselves out by playing a role in order to be successful.

Tough Love for Entrepreneurs – Find Your Beast

Wed, 14 Feb 2018 17:20:02 +0000

Tripp Lanier shares some tough love from a group coaching call for entrepreneurs. Discussed: expecting things to be easy, how we’re getting soft as men, forgetting out power, finding the beast within.

10 Years of The New Man: A Few Lessons I’ve Learned Along the Way

Tue, 06 Feb 2018 14:29:19 +0000

The New Man Podcast crosses the decade mark. Host and coach Tripp Lanier shares a few lessons he’s learned about playing your own game, having better relationships, and the myth of being an alpha male.

214 Sex. Power. Desire. Danger? — Shana James

Tue, 09 Jan 2018 15:11:38 +0000

Why can some guys flirt without being offensive? Is sexual desire going to get you fired? Is shaming and repressing your turn-on the best way to deal with it? Healthy ways to deal with sexual desire and power.

213 Is Average Bad? External Validation & Comparing Yourself to Others – Barry Michels

Tue, 12 Dec 2017 14:37:04 +0000

Barry Michels (co-author of The Tools and Coming Alive with Phil Stutz) discusses lessons learned from working with celebrities and billionaires — the trap that comes from the need for external validation and comparing yourself to others. Tips for finding power, freedom, and playing your own game.

212 Sex Tips for Men: Break Out of Your Sex Routine – Alyssa Morin

Mon, 20 Nov 2017 13:44:59 +0000

Alyssa Morin Somatic Sex Educator - What is your partner complaining about when it comes to sex with you? What can you do if sex is stale or predictable? Practical tips for keeping your sex life off of the back burner.

211 How to Avoid Communication Breakdowns – Alan Alda

Tue, 07 Nov 2017 08:00:19 +0000

Alan Alda discusses why so many smart guys are terrible communicators, how bad communication makes life harder, and what you can do to be more powerful with others.

210 How to Break Free from Negativity – Tank Sinatra aka George Resch

Fri, 20 Oct 2017 15:30:10 +0000

Tank Sinatra aka George Resch discusses what Gary Vaynerchuk told him about trolls, being called a sellout, and what he does to break free from negativity. - https://www.tanksinatra.com

209 How to Create Life Changing Experiences – Dan Heath co-author of The Power of Moments

Tue, 10 Oct 2017 15:04:01 +0000

Why do we remember specific moments and forget the majority of others? Can we design “defining” moments and experiences that change our lives? With Dan Heath co-author of The Power of Moments.

Part 6: What I Learned from Being Really Bad at My Job

Thu, 28 Sep 2017 07:00:04 +0000

Part 6 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. The Authority Group Coaching Program only opens once per year. That time is now. Click the link to learn more. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire/

Part 5: How to Tell if a Guy is Going to Fail

Tue, 26 Sep 2017 07:00:24 +0000

Part 5 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. The Authority Group Coaching Program only opens once per year. That time is now. Click the link to learn more. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire/

Part 4: The Mindset to Get Out of “Stuck”

Thu, 21 Sep 2017 07:00:18 +0000

Part 4 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. The Authority Group Coaching Program only opens once per year. That time is now. Click the link to learn more. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire/

208 The Tools to Beat the Devil In Your Head – Phil Stutz + Barry Michels

Tue, 19 Sep 2017 07:00:36 +0000

“The Tools” guys Phil Stutz and Barry Michels (Coming Alive) discuss how to have more energy, overcome your worst habits, what to do when you get knocked down, and the danger of getting your hopes up.

Part 3: Why Most Guys Don’t Get Stuff Done

Thu, 14 Sep 2017 07:00:19 +0000

Part 3 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire

Part 2: How Most Guys Give Up Their Power

Tue, 12 Sep 2017 07:00:11 +0000

Part 2 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program.

Part 1: How to Tell if a Guy Has Lost His Balls

Thu, 07 Sep 2017 07:00:40 +0000

Why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. An intro to Tripp Lanier's Authority Group Coaching program.

207 How to Create Your Own Opportunities – Mike Kelly Founder of Member Vault

Tue, 05 Sep 2017 13:17:16 +0000

Mike Kelly Member Vault Founder discusses moving from a job to starting his own company, creating your own opportunities, having ballsy conversations, and how to stop “hiding out” professionally. - https://membervault.co

206 What To Do About Your Family Problems – Eric Maisel PhD

Mon, 21 Aug 2017 16:02:26 +0000

Family problems? Do “normal” families even exist? What can you do to stay in your power? Discussion with Eric Maisel PhD author of Overcoming Your Difficult Family: 8 Skills for Thriving in Any Family Situation. - https://ericmaisel.com

205 How to Be Tough As Hell – Joe De Sena Spartan Race

Mon, 07 Aug 2017 20:25:34 +0000

Joe De Sena Spartan Race CEO and author discusses grit, obstacle immunity, hacking, business success, and how to be tough as hell.

204 How to Fall in Love with Fear – Akshay Nanavati Fearvana

Mon, 24 Jul 2017 12:14:02 +0000

Akshay Nanavati discusses: tips for turning fear into power, PTSD, addiction, ultra-marathons, the Marines, and finding bliss thru fear aka Fearvana.

203 How to Be Better Than Everybody Else – JP Sears

Mon, 10 Jul 2017 13:05:40 +0000

JP Sears How to Be Ultra Spiritual — Why you should get offended; Comedy; Sex, Tantra and Acro-Yoga; Finding a sense of purpose; Neediness; Spiritual Gurus.

202 How to Stop Making Life Harder Than It Already Is – Jaimal Yogis

Mon, 26 Jun 2017 07:03:24 +0000

Jaimal Yogis (All Our Waves Are Water) discusses why the 4 Hour Workweek Lifestyle is unfulfilling, Buddhism, escaping life’s problems, and comparing ourselves to others.

201 Should You Leave Your Relationship? — Alyson Lanier

Fri, 16 Jun 2017 16:47:00 +0000

Alyson Lanier (relationship and intimacy coach) discusses: hot to get your relationship on the right track, how to make a big commitment, when it’s time to leave the relationship.

How Anger Can Make Us More Powerful: Anger Management

Fri, 09 Jun 2017 19:42:30 +0000

Is anger management a bunch of BS? How can anger make us more powerful? Discussed: Anger vs aggression, Robert Augustus Masters, Equine Therapy

200 Hero’s Journey Through Addiction – Shane Ramer

Sat, 27 May 2017 13:04:43 +0000

Shane Ramer from Sober Guy Radio shares his hero’s journey through addiction to recovery. Plus: mindset, living for something bigger than your ego

199 How to Leave a Career That is Eating You Alive — Robert Kandell

Tue, 16 May 2017 13:16:53 +0000

Robert Kandell created One Taste with Nicole Daedone. Discussed: How the company was devouring his life, how he dealt with doubt/uncertainty, and how he learned from personal and professional mistakes.

How To Overcome Anxiety and Move Into Power

Tue, 09 May 2017 13:25:24 +0000

Tripp Lanier talks about how to overcome anxiety and move into power. Learn how to master dynamic tension, defeat powerlessness, and go all in.

Got Fear of Rejection? How To Stop Avoiding NO

Tue, 02 May 2017 07:05:50 +0000

Tripp Lanier talks about overcoming the fear of rejection and encourages you to stop avoiding NO so you can play at a higher level and feel more alive.

Stop Trying To Be Liked

Tue, 25 Apr 2017 07:05:34 +0000

Tripp Lanier talks about how to grow your business by taking the focus away from trying to be ‘liked’ and instead focus on serving others.

Is Following Your Bliss a Trap?

Tue, 18 Apr 2017 07:05:02 +0000

Tripp Lanier talks about the Joseph Campbell quote ‘Follow Your Bliss’ and how doing so doesn’t guarantee you won’t have challenges or you’ll make money doing it.

Stop Being A Jerk: How Ego Is The Enemy

Tue, 11 Apr 2017 07:16:31 +0000

Tripp Lanier talks about how ego is the enemy, how it shows up in self-deprecation and has you play small, and why you might be being a jerk if you’re hiding out and waiting to do good work in the world.

David Lee Roth at a Strip Club – How To Have More Energy And Passion

Tue, 04 Apr 2017 13:33:07 +0000

Tripp Lanier talks about his experience with David Lee Roth at a strip club. Tips for how to get more energy, passion back into your life.

Stop Messing Around: Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone

Fri, 24 Mar 2017 16:05:30 +0000

Tripp Lanier encourages you to get out of your comfort zone and stop messing around and tolerating a life you don’t want because you won’t take the risk to step out of your comfort zone and into uncertainty.

Why You’re Not Getting Cool Opportunities: How to Sell Yourself Better Than an Elevator Pitch

Mon, 20 Mar 2017 16:03:21 +0000

Tripp Lanier talks about learning how to sell yourself by taking responsibility to master your elevator pitch and tell your story so you can create cool opportunities.

The Drama Triangle, How To Avoid Drama, and Tripp’s 3-Way

Tue, 14 Mar 2017 05:12:30 +0000

Tripp Lanier talks the drama triangle, how to avoid drama and the time he wanted to have a 3-way on his honeymoon without his wife.

Get a Growth Mindset: The Magic of a Montage

Tue, 07 Mar 2017 17:12:43 +0000

Tripp Lanier talks about the growth mindset, learning as a key to growth, and why you need a montage to achieve your goals

198 Understanding the Mastery of Self – Don Miguel Ruiz Jr

Fri, 24 Feb 2017 16:10:03 +0000

Don Miguel Ruiz Jr: Mastery of Self, how to stop taking things personally, personal power, scarcity mindset, and how men become domesticated.

How To Be A Badass: Learn From Bruce Lee

Tue, 21 Feb 2017 17:11:47 +0000

Learn how to be a badass from Bruce Lee as Tripp Lanier talks about Bruce Lee philosophy and why being a badass requires you to be a whole person.

197 How to Benefit from Altered States – Jamie Wheal Stealing Fire

Tue, 14 Feb 2017 14:44:12 +0000

Stealing Fire Jamie Wheal discusses flow, ecstasis, startup founders at Burning Man, Navy SEALs using altered states to accelerate learning.

196 Habits of Heroes, Strength, and the Trap of Manliness – Eric Davis (Navy SEAL Sniper Instructor)

Wed, 25 Jan 2017 17:00:21 +0000

Eric Davis Habits of Heroes: Navy SEAL Sniper Instructor discusses the trap of manliness, why most guys have no clue about strength, and what makes men weak.

195 Rebirth and Facing Fears – Kamal Ravikant

Tue, 03 Jan 2017 08:00:52 +0000

Kamal Ravikant Rebirth: How to face your fears, forgive, use death as a motivator, stay out of victim mindset, and walk the Camino de Santiago.

194 How to Optimize Your Mood – Dr Will Van Derveer

Mon, 12 Dec 2016 15:29:48 +0000

Optimize Your Mood. What’s really causing your lousy moods? Dr Will Van Derveer helps us understand what the brain needs so you can feel amazing. Also: MDMA being used to treat PTSD.

193 Women and Sexual Harassment at Work – Jeanine Becker

Mon, 05 Dec 2016 08:00:33 +0000

Women and Sexual Harassment with Jeanine Becker. How to be an ally to women at work. When can you tell her a dirty joke without losing your job?

192 The Subtle Art of Not Caring So Much — Mark Manson

Mon, 14 Nov 2016 08:00:32 +0000

Best selling author Mark Manson discusses why it’s better to be average, entitlement, bad values vs good values, and trying to avoid negativity.

191 Why Personal Growth Won’t Make You More Money — Daniel Priestley

Mon, 07 Nov 2016 13:53:10 +0000

Daniel Priestley on being a Key Person of Influence, why personal growth won’t make you more money, and why self deprecation is another ego-trip.

190 Can a SEAL Sniper Teach Parenting? – Eric Davis

Tue, 25 Oct 2016 12:58:10 +0000

Eric Davis Navy SEAL Sniper discusses Raising Men, parenting, and lessons learned from SEAL training taught to our sons and daughters.

189 How to Turn an Enemy into an Ally – Bill Shireman

Mon, 10 Oct 2016 12:52:00 +0000

Bill Shireman of Future 500 discusses how to turn an enemy into an ally, being played by political polarization, and institutions demonizing one another.